The "Badboy" image, do women like it?

[Phenomenom101]

Alright so by reading the subject title you already know what I mean. I know that the girls go googoo over this kind of thing. For some reason, they seem to like the go tee (that beard that is at the chin) the tattoos, earing, and the bald fades or bald heads. I don't think that all girls go crazy for this but do you guys think that this is true? I mean, have any of you gone so far at changing your appearance? Most importantly why would a women like this type of guy? Could it be cause the bad guy looks like he has complete confidence? I know that I wouldn't like to change my appearance to that, no matter how hot the girl would be. I wanna hear what you people think about this. Hope to hear from ya. Later

 

[Oxide]

no. the badboy attracts girls becuase he is untamed. he acts the way he wants to and doesnt take ****. girls want a guy like that to control them, so they fall for him.

 

[KevM2]

If you don't have a personality to fit the bad boy image, don't do it. Being a bad boy is more personality than anything. Besides, you can get your ass kicked trying to look tough. Once you open your mouth, it will betray you. Being a good conversationalist would work fine for your purposes. It's very 'unbadboy' sacrificing your whole image and style just for what you imagine that girls might find appealing. Use what you got and remain a bit elusive. That's bad boy enough.

 

[Demon]

I used to know a guy who built his rep as a "badboy." He told me acting the way he acts helps him get laid a lot. I asked a few girls what they thought of the "badboy" image and each responded their initial impression of any guy with a "badboy" image is that he's a dimwitted player who's probably not worth their time.

A few weeks later, this guy is able to screw both of them within the same week. Like anything, persistance and dedication get you a great deal. You don't necessarily need an image.

 

[Digital Mastermind1]

na you got to play the game boys. you have to be someone that they cant have " bad boy" . as for me and my circle of friends the badboy attitude has always worked for us specially at the mall and at clubs .



recently i got two numbers and am dj them by just acting desireless and nonchalant but once they fall in love with you just give it to them in small doses so they know who is boss in the relationship ( they love this **** and keep asking for more ).



latez!!!!

 

[GQ Prettyboy]

The reason why women like bad boys because they have that I don`t give a f*ck attitude. You really don`t have to be bad boy but you can portray that same attitude.

 

[GQ Prettyboy]

Also being a bad boy is attitude and personality, not image. You rather can kick some ass than to look like you can kick some ass.

 

[Iceberg]

I think we all like the bad image. I personally love a girl whose got a little edge to her. Nothing criminal, but there's something confident about a person who just doesn't give a fluck.

 

[Trickster_guy_2001]

Originally posted by Phenomenom101
Alright so by reading the subject title you already know what I mean. I know that the girls go googoo over this kind of thing. For some reason, they seem to like the go tee (that beard that is at the chin) the tattoos, earing, and the bald fades or bald heads. I don't think that all girls go crazy for this but do you guys think that this is true? I mean, have any of you gone so far at changing your appearance? Most importantly why would a women like this type of guy? Could it be cause the bad guy looks like he has complete confidence? I know that I wouldn't like to change my appearance to that, no matter how hot the girl would be. I wanna hear what you people think about this. Hope to hear from ya. Later

Bad Boys are a "fix it" project. And girls always want to fix things, even if they aren't broken. If things are going great in a relationship, and there are no fights, the woman will often start a fight over nothing, and then they have something to fix.

I think there can be a look to a person that would make them look like a bad boy. Goatees, Bald heads, adding a lot of weight/muscle. Your sereotypical biker. Bald, usually pretty big, having tattoos, goatees, etc.

You can try a look, if you'd think it would help, but be a good guy. Not a AFC or "niceguy." but a good man.

 

[Slashco]

Here's an excerpt from another site:

"It's true that some women always fall for the bad boys. However, most of the time, the woman wants to change the bad boy. These relationships don't usually last. At the very least, they're not usually relationships where you'll find both people happy.

I used to fall for bad boys, but then I grew up. I got tired of the bull****, and quit dating for several years. Then I met my husband, who is "dependable and kind." That's when I realized what losers my bad-boy ex-boyfriends really were.

What it all boils down to is that women want respect."

"Dumb little girls like Bad Boys.

Smart women know better, because they were once dumb little girls.

Why would anyone want someone who doesn't want them for the person they are? Why would they try to fit some mold to get accepted? It's all pretty weak and lame.

The problem is that men and women both try to hard to figure out what men and women are thinking, when the truth of the matter is that all you need to do is find that ONE person who doesn't confuse the everloving piss out of you.

I love my husband because we connected mentally, emotionally and physically. That couldn't have happened if either one of us were playing games to "catch" a mate.

Sure, there are going to be shallow women out there who judge men based on their socks or car or some other material possession, but... why the hell would anyone want them?

Life is way too short to waste it living a charade."

 

[gabrielshear2005]

i agree

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by GQ Prettyboy
Also being a bad boy is attitude and personality, not image. You rather can kick some ass than to look like you can kick some ass.

I think there can be a look to a person that would make them look like a bad boy. Goatees, Bald heads, adding a lot of weight/muscle. Your sereotypical biker. Bald, usually pretty big, having tattoos, goatees, etc.

I agree with these 2 that's what makes a guy appear "bad boy".

But technically if you ask me the ideal "bad boy" idealogy sucks in general. IMHO Girls love a guy who's confident, slightly arrogant/****y, can make her laugh, speaks his mind, not give a shyt what others think, and has a certain edge to him (which is a slight trait of badboy)....AND at times can be caring, considerate, sweet when needed. To me, that's what a real man is.

But generally it's the attitude and personality. Which in turn can influence the way people perceive your image.

As for a 'true' badboy, most girls do appear to swoon over them and there are some who do not.