"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mrs. K has gotten me into this show and I have to say it is a classic study of women and the politics of man chasing.

One thing I've seen time and time again, so much so that I know it to be factual, is that women, no matter how close their relationship, will claw and fvck each other over the attention of a man with status and allure.

These b!tches are absolutely diabolical in their quest for Brads' adoration and will do everything to put themselves in his eye. Good to see the dude has his head on straight and is picking apart the flakes from the rest of the herd.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yo Karma,


One thing I've noticed about ALL these types of shows so far is THIS truth:

These "competitors" really ARE in hardcore competition. But PRIMARILY just against all the other babes-----but not so much so for the guy himself.

These varying collections of Attention Whhores (be they from The Bachelor, Flavor of Love, Rock of Love, etc..) are always MORE engaged in pitched battle to win ATTENTION, more than anything else.

To hell with "the guy" at the center of it all. Hell...once the competition is over, you can even SEE the lack of lnterest clearly displayed across MOST of their faces-----starting all the way back from the very first "Who want's to marry a Millionaire (remember THAT one? lol), to that most recent final installment of Flavor of Love 2.

And deep down, this is why I have NO sympathy for any of the chicks who end up getting FUKKED like HBO Tele-Hookers by the guys on these shows.

"Well, welcome to the amoral wasteland of MUTUAL exploitation, everyone," is what I usually think whenever these shows come flickering across my TV screen.

So NOW, I'm just sitting here patiently waiting for the networks to actually come out with a show CALLED:

"Who wants to be the BIGGEST ATTENTION WHORRE?" :rockon:

Now that would really be something, wouldn't it?
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
So NOW, I'm just sitting here patiently waiting for the networks to actually come out with a show CALLED:

"Who wants to be the BIGGEST ATTENTION WHORRE?"

They did. It's called "American Idol." :D
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
Yo Karma,


One thing I've noticed about ALL these types of shows so far is THIS truth:

These "competitors" really ARE in hardcore competition. But PRIMARILY just against all the other babes-----but not so much so for the guy himself.

These varying collections of Attention Whhores (be they from The Bachelor, Flavor of Love, Rock of Love, etc..) are always MORE engaged in pitched battle to win ATTENTION, more than anything else.

To hell with "the guy" at the center of it all. Hell...once the competition is over, you can even SEE the lack of lnterest clearly displayed across MOST of their faces-----starting all the way back from the very first "Who want's to marry a Millionaire (remember THAT one? lol), to that most recent final installment of Flavor of Love 2.
It's true that every ounce of thier being is consumed by besting the broad on her left and right. It's a testament of desperation how they'll disregard thier own "morals" and subjugate envy and jealousy for kindness and a healthy regard for thier own esteem purely for attention but I think it may go a bit deeper than that. They believe they're entitled to the attention. This is systemic in children who are spoiled and haven't had the gift of discipline to mold thier thought processes. Entitlement, or should I say the belief of entitlement, will kill you faster than a bullet.



"Who wants to be the BIGGEST ATTENTION WHORRE?" :rockon:

Now that would really be something, wouldn't it?
I can see some HB sitting across from Meredith Vierra spinning her heels trying to find out which of the four horsemen to lavish herself on!
 

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So in the end he chose . . .

Neither of them!

And boy are the chicks pissed! They can't fathom that he couldn't find "love" as readily and easily as Jenny or Deanna. I applaude the guy for NOT SETTLING! This is a lesson all of us should learn. Don't fvcking settle for anything less than that which makes you a more complete man.

Mrs. K and I had a good conversation about the whole idea of "instant love". She and I both believe wholeheartedly that tv show love is strictly for monetary gain or fame/attention. On the reunion show following the decision episode neither of the girls could get it in thier heads that he would not settle for either of them. Of course the audience being full of spiteful single broads booed and hissed at him throughout. Give the guy his props though, he didn't falter or make any excuses for himself other than he couldn't find everything he wanted in only one of the women.

Pop my collar and tip my hat to the guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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