"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't watch T.V anymore. It's amazing the complete crap that people are brainwashed with. Iheard someone talking about this show and said F it. Let me make a thread on it.

First on the list is this "Bachelor" garbage. Nuff said.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hzMTzrplP0U

Most chicks should never be taken seriously. This is one example of the type of "parenting" they grow up on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Important point: The man in the vid posted is actually a virgin. There is going to be some weird effects associated with that alone.

on second thought, giant harem. Hopefully Sean actually learns something about women from this experience.
 

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When I was younger and clueless I used to actually feel sorry for some chicks. As time went on I felt sorry for less and less. With the amount of complete fairytale etc. nonsense that's popular these days I feel sorry for no chicks at all. Period.

Watching that short clip is just one reminder of why I don't bother watching TV and could care less about celebrities or the crap the media tries to brainwash sheep with.

The US is slowly but surely going down the sh1tter. The only thing you can do is look at it from an outsiders point of view and shake your head.
 

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i just like to laugh at how lame the women are and sometimes the guys...well, a lot of times the guys..
 

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I think the Bachelor show (where the chicks chase him) just verifies all the stuff on this site. Higher value (scarcity) = high interest from chicks.

Then when the show ends, she realizes he's an AFC and they break up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Uncharted said:
I think the Bachelor show (where the chicks chase him) just verifies all the stuff on this site. Higher value (scarcity) = high interest from chicks.

Then when the show ends, she realizes he's an AFC and they break up.
Exactly. How marketable is a virgin guy who isn't a reality show celebrity? Not very. But put him on the show, and he's in hot demand.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Exactly. How marketable is a virgin guy who isn't a reality show celebrity? Not very. But put him on the show, and he's in hot demand.

The key words being "on the show". You can put a carrot nowadays on reality TV and millions of people will want THAT carrot. It's amazing what an HD camera will do for your image and status. You can now make your own channel on YouTube and you'll be popular if you put on enough bullʂhit. Make a channel and call it "My Quest To Loose Virginity To A Super Model" and people will eat that ʂhit up with a ladle!
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
I don't watch T.V anymore. It's amazing the complete crap that people are brainwashed with. Iheard someone talking about this show and said F it. Let me make a thread on it.

First on the list is this "Bachelor" garbage. Nuff said.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hzMTzrplP0U
The stupid, it hurts.

I apologize for my generation of women sir.
 

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Uncharted said:
I think the Bachelor show (where the chicks chase him) just verifies all the stuff on this site. Higher value (scarcity) = high interest from chicks.

Then when the show ends, she realizes he's an AFC and they break up.
True enough. However, part of the reason for the breakup is that there is less incentive to "put on a show" when the cameras turn off too.

The high value point is on the money. I remember reading a study where they did a "reverse" speed dating event. The women switched tables and the men stayed in their places. They found that there were more matches when they did so. Part of the reason is that women in general are more picky and think that they have higher value than a man even within their own league (no surprise really). So when you "create" higher value in the man by making the woman chase him, she is more likely to choose to match with the man.

Of course looks plays a dominant role as always.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
I remember reading a study where they did a "reverse" speed dating event. The women switched tables and the men stayed in their places. They found that there were more matches when they did so. Part of the reason is that women in general are more picky and think that they have higher value than a man even within their own league (no surprise really). So when you "create" higher value in the man by making the woman chase him, she is more likely to choose to match with the man.
I read a study that replicated these findings. However, the theory was that when you take steps to approach something -- like literally walk toward something -- you regard it as worth more than you do if that thing (or person) approaches you.

This is true for both males and females. If you have to walk 10 yards to get a cookie, that cookie will taste better to you than if someone walks 10 yards and hands it to you.

Makes sense. Which is why women go to great lengths to get the man to approach them.
 
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