"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Attraction Hierarchy (And holarchy)

dynamically

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I don't believe in just having status or just having game. I believe in being a complete man. And for those of you who are wondering (Yes I am da dynamically). I got locked out of my 2003 account and the email I used to retrieve my password is also old and forgotten.

In ascending order, this is what women respond to...

1. Dominance (status, money, looks, pre-selection, height, muscles, leadership skills, etc)
2. Ability to create sexual tension (Women don't fvck shy guys)
3. Intrigue (Challenge, mystery, unsolvable and uncontrollable).
4. Connection.


Notice I put connection last, but it is still needed. However, women do not care about your connection unless you have the first 3 down. What most beta nice guys do is they try to connect with women because they see it works in the movies. But the leading man is often tall, good looking, in shape, and successful so his "sappy romantic moves" work. Women ONLY want a connection from a dominant masculine man.

Outside of this, nothing else exists. This is the holy grail of seduction. It cannot be improved on or revised. Neglect the attraction hierarchy at your own risk.

And when you check all the boxes, relax. Another sticking point I often see (when I used to teach pickup) is that guys would have all of these qualities and STILL supplicate to women. You have to act accordingly to your value! Otherwise, it is incongruent and women will reject you.

So how do you act like this guy if you ARE him? Simple. It's called the attraction holarchy.

Presence (Alpha male dominating presence)
Appreciation (for the feminine essence)
Integrity (having boundaries, standards, and principles)
Play (flirt)


All you have to do is show up with your commanding alpha male dominant presence, show appreciation for her feminine essence, have BOUNDARIES (part of integrity), and then flirt. That's it!

I have figured it all out from A to Z so no one else has to.

The first half of the battle is to achieve the attraction hierarchy. The second half is to act like him.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Appreciation (for the feminine essence)
Integrity (having boundaries, standards, and principles)
With my models I'll write "You are a goddess!" (with a 99 rated photo attached)
Then if they are 15 minutes late "You are fired!"
 

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Yeah I rule my women with an iron fist. They are even afraid to look at other guys in my presence. Women know all about the male ego, so any disrespect is always low interest, but nice guys have a tendency to rationalize women's behavior.
 

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And for those of you who are wondering (Yes I am da dynamically). I got locked out of my 2003 account and the email I used to retrieve my password is also old and forgotten.
Have you tried messaging the admin? He might be able to verify it's really you and recover the account another way.
 

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Commanding who?

You one of those d!ck-tator types?

I'm sure that will go over well.o_O
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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