"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Attraction Hierarchy (And holarchy)

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I don't believe in just having status or just having game. I believe in being a complete man. And for those of you who are wondering (Yes I am da dynamically). I got locked out of my 2003 account and the email I used to retrieve my password is also old and forgotten.

In ascending order, this is what women respond to...

1. Dominance (status, money, looks, pre-selection, height, muscles, leadership skills, etc)
2. Ability to create sexual tension (Women don't fvck shy guys)
3. Intrigue (Challenge, mystery, unsolvable and uncontrollable).
4. Connection.


Notice I put connection last, but it is still needed. However, women do not care about your connection unless you have the first 3 down. What most beta nice guys do is they try to connect with women because they see it works in the movies. But the leading man is often tall, good looking, in shape, and successful so his "sappy romantic moves" work. Women ONLY want a connection from a dominant masculine man.

Outside of this, nothing else exists. This is the holy grail of seduction. It cannot be improved on or revised. Neglect the attraction hierarchy at your own risk.

And when you check all the boxes, relax. Another sticking point I often see (when I used to teach pickup) is that guys would have all of these qualities and STILL supplicate to women. You have to act accordingly to your value! Otherwise, it is incongruent and women will reject you.

So how do you act like this guy if you ARE him? Simple. It's called the attraction holarchy.

Presence (Alpha male dominating presence)
Appreciation (for the feminine essence)
Integrity (having boundaries, standards, and principles)
Play (flirt)


All you have to do is show up with your commanding alpha male dominant presence, show appreciation for her feminine essence, have BOUNDARIES (part of integrity), and then flirt. That's it!

I have figured it all out from A to Z so no one else has to.

The first half of the battle is to achieve the attraction hierarchy. The second half is to act like him.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Appreciation (for the feminine essence)
Integrity (having boundaries, standards, and principles)
With my models I'll write "You are a goddess!" (with a 99 rated photo attached)
Then if they are 15 minutes late "You are fired!"
 

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Yeah I rule my women with an iron fist. They are even afraid to look at other guys in my presence. Women know all about the male ego, so any disrespect is always low interest, but nice guys have a tendency to rationalize women's behavior.
 

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And for those of you who are wondering (Yes I am da dynamically). I got locked out of my 2003 account and the email I used to retrieve my password is also old and forgotten.
Have you tried messaging the admin? He might be able to verify it's really you and recover the account another way.
 

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Commanding who?

You one of those d!ck-tator types?

I'm sure that will go over well.o_O
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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