sosilky said:
Interesting post, why do some girls become attention wh0res? will they always be that way?
who knows? there is this girl I work with at the club she's a bit chubby and she is as far as I can tell mentally unstable. allways looking for confirmation of a nice deed done by her, drives herself mad when she feels like someone is not nice to her wether this is professionally or personally. she can't make a difference. She considders me one of her best friends I considder her as a friend but that's it. I have to tell her every once in a while that she is going nuts and making assumptions so that creates times of me being very close to her and times when I'm verry distant towards her. but in the end I'm in controll as this person is simply not that much expressive as another example I'm going to give you.
the other insane girl is HOT and I mean DAMN HOT so hot infact in the club I work dozens of guys try to hit on her trying to seduce her every weekend but she is also emotionally completley insane. she makes a lot of assumptions and because she is used to guys sucking up to her she does things as in calling names yelling cursing even spilling drinks over others cause she get's mad when things don't go the way she wants and there have rarely been guys standing up to her. I've messed around with her for a month till she invited me over to her place and that's where I understood she's not worth any trust as she can not help herself she went rambling about what I was doing with other girls and that she noticed how Jealous I could become when she made out with someone else infront of me and Said that she would allow me to spend the night with her if I would stop flirting with girls at the club. It took me 2 months to have her realise that I don't give a ratts ass, but she still tries every weekend to make a comment trying to lure me into reacting.
and I have confessed this to my 2 best friends that I love being in controll with this girl but the moments of controll are only there at the beginning of the evening while she is still sober, and towards the end of the evening when she is sobering up. any moment in between is walking into a minefield.
if both of them ever will quit this AW way of living? I'm not sure, I don't really care. All I can and do is draw a line allowing them to do what ever both of them want as long as they do not interfier with my life.
I do not tollerate any negative vibe in my life and I do not let someone disrupt me at work.
anyway the reason why AW's do what they do is irrelevent unless you're studying psychology and are going to major in AW syndrome. it's not worth the time as I do not see a stable relationship in the future for either case.
