the "attacher"

[backbreaker]

I don't really know what you call this particular type of woman I just made up a name, that's what I reffer them to. Everyone has seen one before. hell you probably even dated one.

like the cute girl, not HOT, but definably not ugly... has some type of good girl exterior qualities about her, but she just had all this **** going on all the time and like any dude that gets involved with her has to now handle or deal with her **** for her.

one of my friends started messing witht his girl about a month month and a half ago. very very skinny, not by any stretch of the imagnation hot but she's not ugly either. i wouldn't even go so far as to call her cute just not ugly. anyway girl doesn't have a job, lives with her sister.

so they start hanging out or what not and she is like on him like a bee to honey. just attached at the hip. and now this is her boyfriend and he's happy and **** but as soon as that happens now he has to help her move out of her house beucase her sister is mad at her beucase she did X and now he's got to find her a place to move all her **** that was at the sisters house and he's calling around trying to find some plce to put it. it can't all fit in his storage as he lives with a roommate . she's pretty much moved in with him


and the funniest thing about ti all is, i have no confirmation of this other than my DJ radar.. but they aren't fvcking, and i'm pretty damn sure about that. you can tell the difference between a couple who is fvcking and who isn't and they aren't. so he's not fvcking this girl and now he's moving all her **** around taking days off work and **** to help her out. even if he was fvcking her still that's just too much.

I don't care for her she seems too homely

it's just like the perfect example of just paying attention and not thinking with your ****. i don't understand what makes this dude thinks that just because he is now in her life all her problems are going to just go away or that she is going to actually be thankful for all he has done by rewarding him wtih passionate sex. she doesn't even look like she knows how to have passionate sex lol.

i guess what i am trying to say Is i don't see this guys rationale for trying to do this **** for her. I really don't. I mean, a woman who is in her 20's who can't do ANYTHING for herself is a pretty big red flag.

 

[cordoncordon]

I don't really know what you call this particular type of woman I just made up a name, that's what I reffer them to. Everyone has seen one before. hell you probably even dated one.

like the cute girl, not HOT, but definably not ugly... has some type of good girl exterior qualities about her, but she just had all this **** going on all the time and like any dude that gets involved with her has to now handle or deal with her **** for her.

one of my friends started messing witht his girl about a month month and a half ago. very very skinny, not by any stretch of the imagnation hot but she's not ugly either. i wouldn't even go so far as to call her cute just not ugly. anyway girl doesn't have a job, lives with her sister.

so they start hanging out or what not and she is like on him like a bee to honey. just attached at the hip. and now this is her boyfriend and he's happy and **** but as soon as that happens now he has to help her move out of her house beucase her sister is mad at her beucase she did X and now he's got to find her a place to move all her **** that was at the sisters house and he's calling around trying to find some plce to put it. it can't all fit in his storage as he lives with a roommate . she's pretty much moved in with him


and the funniest thing about ti all is, i have no confirmation of this other than my DJ radar.. but they aren't fvcking, and i'm pretty damn sure about that. you can tell the difference between a couple who is fvcking and who isn't and they aren't. so he's not fvcking this girl and now he's moving all her **** around taking days off work and **** to help her out. even if he was fvcking her still that's just too much.

I don't care for her she seems too homely

it's just like the perfect example of just paying attention and not thinking with your ****. i don't understand what makes this dude thinks that just because he is now in her life all her problems are going to just go away or that she is going to actually be thankful for all he has done by rewarding him wtih passionate sex. she doesn't even look like she knows how to have passionate sex lol.

i guess what i am trying to say Is i don't see this guys rationale for trying to do this **** for her. I really don't. I mean, a woman who is in her 20's who can't do ANYTHING for herself is a pretty big red flag.

BB you can't see this guys rationale because he is the typical AFC. There is no rationale. You can't explain it other than to say many men would rather be with someone, then no one. 3/4 of the men in this country are this way. It's genetic and evolutionary, this need to have a mate, and it has made men patsies.

Sad, but it is just the way it is.

 

[pdx1138]

my best friend did this with a stripper.

same story, though she did offer him her poon and he turned it down.

biggest lesson he learned ever.

 

[PeakIV]

men start needing to be a man. you have a woman in your life to enhance it not detract. If your not bedding her on a regular basis why is she there...

Girls who have no job or many jobs and can't sort their sh*t out will expect you to do it for them, that is not your job.

I realised this when I had oneitis. some girls (especially if they have daddy issues) are looking for a carer not a relationship)

Someone once said "never go out with someone that has more problems than you have"

 

[typical]

"never go out with someone that has more problems than you have"

That is very true, hit me in the head as being the same thing written in the laws of power about hanging out with infectious people as their bad luck and sadness will bring you down too.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Not good when suddenly you're taking care of all of her problems...is the vagina worth X hours of physical labor moving furniture and dealing with leases....maybe it's true love? :/

ps, some of these girls really have no self-identity...they have no sense of themselves, self-value...they latch onto a dude and he steers but really their own life is just a random driven-less sort of thing...

I love a woman that has a strong identity of herself.

 

[disgustipated]

I stopped reading at he helped her move without ****ing her first. Awww hell no. What is this, vagina layaway?

 

[Von_S]

Typical Captain-Save-A-H0e bvll****, this isn't a new type of woman, BB, its just one that's good at finding this type of AFC and exploiting him.

 

[origin138]

Typical Captain-Save-A-H0e bvll****, this isn't a new type of woman, BB, its just one that's good at finding this type of AFC and exploiting him.

This exactly. Needy b!tches have a 6th sense about AFCs.