I'm currently reading the art of war and it's turning out to be a revelation for me.. It's getting me closer to being a "master DJ"
I would recommend it as a must read for anyone looking to improve themselves, it can help give you insights into a lot!
It can relate to anything..
A lot of what I've taken out of it is that you've got to know what your up against, use the natural strengths of your surroundings and be very aware of the weaknesses, a failure to prepare means you must be prepared to fail.
My recent experiences with work and life in general have taught me that you've got to trust your gut feeling and not let things eat you up inside, this is the worst thing you can do.. look at the AFC.. He clings on to his feelings for a woman falling deeper and deeper until he implodes, tells her how he feels and gets upset... this doesn't just relate to dating... IT RELATES TO EVERYTHING.
If things are eating you up inside you gotta express it, but you gotta be calculated.. look at what your up against and base your approach on this.
A lot of college guys (me included when I was in college.) get a lot of success because it's an even playing field (ish.) what I mean is that your all kind of in the same boat at college.. Status is less relevant because it hold's less bearing to where you actually are.. your all students. Equally most people are young and on a learning curve so sex/relationships are easier to find!
When you out of college and in the real world you gotta be above the bubble, take status out of it, its deep set confidence when you have the security in yourself to not be looking over the fence at other people. The way to get there is to be patient and find your own passions, that's not for me or anyone else to define, to find answers within is the first step to getting that confidence.
There's always gonna be a guy with tighter game or more money or a nicer car than you.. if your focused on yourself only and having your own goals to work towards then you can only be successful.
What does success mean to you?
Some people its banging 50 women a year, some guys it's finding marriage.
Its up to you to decide..
I would recommend it as a must read for anyone looking to improve themselves, it can help give you insights into a lot!
It can relate to anything..
A lot of what I've taken out of it is that you've got to know what your up against, use the natural strengths of your surroundings and be very aware of the weaknesses, a failure to prepare means you must be prepared to fail.
My recent experiences with work and life in general have taught me that you've got to trust your gut feeling and not let things eat you up inside, this is the worst thing you can do.. look at the AFC.. He clings on to his feelings for a woman falling deeper and deeper until he implodes, tells her how he feels and gets upset... this doesn't just relate to dating... IT RELATES TO EVERYTHING.
If things are eating you up inside you gotta express it, but you gotta be calculated.. look at what your up against and base your approach on this.
A lot of college guys (me included when I was in college.) get a lot of success because it's an even playing field (ish.) what I mean is that your all kind of in the same boat at college.. Status is less relevant because it hold's less bearing to where you actually are.. your all students. Equally most people are young and on a learning curve so sex/relationships are easier to find!
When you out of college and in the real world you gotta be above the bubble, take status out of it, its deep set confidence when you have the security in yourself to not be looking over the fence at other people. The way to get there is to be patient and find your own passions, that's not for me or anyone else to define, to find answers within is the first step to getting that confidence.
There's always gonna be a guy with tighter game or more money or a nicer car than you.. if your focused on yourself only and having your own goals to work towards then you can only be successful.
What does success mean to you?
Some people its banging 50 women a year, some guys it's finding marriage.
Its up to you to decide..
