"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the art of walking away

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Creating mystery, and getting chicks to think about you by ending a conversation and leaving them guessing. ..

If a girl is being stuck up for whatever reason, even though you are being charming, you may want to leave. or (cut the b****). On several different occasions I have got hot girls (who are use to everyone worshiping them), make a complete change of attitude when around me. It seems as if they are not use to ANYONE who will disregard them at any given time.

Also, leaving on a good note has helped my success with chicks tremendously. If I have a girl cracking up laughing, In some situations I make an exit in one way or another. By not allowing a conversation to grow dull and ending on a good note, chicks start thinking positive about me. Its like the last thing I say is what sticks and remains. Its wierd...

I dont have the time to write more, but I love learning more so critize the hell out of me.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Disconnect

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This is one of the fundamental principles. Not only are you being a challenge, you aren't letting yourself come across as boring, with nothing to say. Ending dates on a good note can be a difference between a second date and a right hand. ;)
 
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