There's a lot said on this about MOVING ON after she's losing interest. That's good advice GENERALLY. But I've RECOVERED a few lost causes and I want to pass along a tip or two.
I mean, what do you have to lose if you REALLY like the girl?
STEP ONE: (hardest step) FORCE yourself to MOVE ON. This is a mental decision, not an emotional one. You change your PERSPECTIVE. Give yourself a pep talk. Then GET OUT THERE and start LIVING your life, meeting women, and becoming outgoing. DO NOT call her.
STEP TWO: Don't TELL HER you've moved on. SHOW HER.
Get involved in making yourself more desirable, financially successful, physically fit, socially adept. Also, gain RECOGNITION in some area. Then let the grapevine do its work.
STEP THREE: Make a MAJOR change in your appearance. Even if youre already decent looking, DO SOMETHING Daring or that shows AGGRESSIVENESS. Apply to MBA school. Start a business. Get lasic surgery. Get muscles. This is a very bold counterstrike. If you lack imagination, i'll give you an INSTANT image make over. Buy a pair of cowboy boots. Trust me.
STEP FOUR: RE Proof yourself. Make it obvious that youre HEADED to more potential status. If youre not sure how, ask someone who's done it. You're going HIGHER in business, socially, than previously.
STEP FIVE: BE seen with another woman in FRONT of the one who dumped you. This will require some imagination!
STEP SIX: Wait for her RE CONTACT. Or faciliitate such contact. DO NOT ask her out again. But get NEAR HER again somehow.
STEP SEVEN: When she tries to open the lines of communication again OPEN IT A TINY BIT. Be more hard to get.
STEP EIGHT: Now youre a challenge again.
I mean, what do you have to lose if you REALLY like the girl?
STEP ONE: (hardest step) FORCE yourself to MOVE ON. This is a mental decision, not an emotional one. You change your PERSPECTIVE. Give yourself a pep talk. Then GET OUT THERE and start LIVING your life, meeting women, and becoming outgoing. DO NOT call her.
STEP TWO: Don't TELL HER you've moved on. SHOW HER.
Get involved in making yourself more desirable, financially successful, physically fit, socially adept. Also, gain RECOGNITION in some area. Then let the grapevine do its work.
STEP THREE: Make a MAJOR change in your appearance. Even if youre already decent looking, DO SOMETHING Daring or that shows AGGRESSIVENESS. Apply to MBA school. Start a business. Get lasic surgery. Get muscles. This is a very bold counterstrike. If you lack imagination, i'll give you an INSTANT image make over. Buy a pair of cowboy boots. Trust me.
STEP FOUR: RE Proof yourself. Make it obvious that youre HEADED to more potential status. If youre not sure how, ask someone who's done it. You're going HIGHER in business, socially, than previously.
STEP FIVE: BE seen with another woman in FRONT of the one who dumped you. This will require some imagination!
STEP SIX: Wait for her RE CONTACT. Or faciliitate such contact. DO NOT ask her out again. But get NEAR HER again somehow.
STEP SEVEN: When she tries to open the lines of communication again OPEN IT A TINY BIT. Be more hard to get.
STEP EIGHT: Now youre a challenge again.
