The Art of Getting Laid and Spinning Plates

[PlayHer Man]

Prerequisite --> Not giving a sh!t about "losing" a woman.

Fear of losing a woman is the #1 achillies heel that keeps men beta. Once your need for female approval is completely eliminated... you finally have real leverage to play the game.

So if you want a soul mate.. stop reading now because nothing can help you.


How to get laid and spin plates in 5 easy steps:

1. Flirt, flirt, flirt. Be a vagina tease. Flirt for the fun of flirting.. even with women you don't care if you f*ck. Every time you have a hot cashier, waitress, sandwich artist or iphone sales person.. you have an opportunity to FLIRT.

2. Touch, touch, touch. This is one of the BIGGEST shortcuts to getting laid and it actually surprises me that so few men ever point it out. This is what separates the DJ's from the betas. The beta will try to talk his way into a woman's pants by trying to prove his value with DHV stories and other postering. A DJ will literally remove a woman's pants with his hands. He will not feel the need to prove anything.

When I meet new women I try to touch them as much as possible. It lets me know right away if she is submissive (thus attracted to me) or a c*nt.

3. Build her up. Boost her ego by allowing her to believe she is special in some way. The first time you attempt to f*ck her.. point out something special about her right before you pull out your c0ck.

For instance.. this one plate I have is a dental hygienist. So naturally she has great teeth. I told her its the hottest job in the world and started making out with her. I asked her to tell me more about teeth. She was flattered by my "respect" for her "career". Then I pulled out my c0ck and pounded her.

4. Be a Boss. Once you f*ck a girl the ball is in your court. Its now HER turn to seduce YOU and prove she is worth keeping around for more than a c0ck moisturizer. Most women suck at this, but that's not your problem.

This is when you relax and make the relationship 80-100% on your terms.. depending on her value.

5. Rotate. Give each plate their own "week" to be top plate once a month while you give your other plates less attention. This will make them feel less cheap about being used only for sex. A week as top plate gives hope for the future. Its also a reward for good behavior. Top plates might get such perks as:

-Restaurant meals
-Real conversations
-Non-text Phone time
-A red rose
-Going out on a Friday or Saturday night
-Shopping with you (no more than 1 hour)

 

[Syrio]

I've had my fair share of issues with some of the posts you've made but this is actually pretty on point. Especially numbers 1 and 2.

 

[JoeMarron]

Greatness as always. I'd like to emphasize the importance of touch and how many people underestimate it. This isn't even just about game. Touch is important period. Babies need it to develop properly, if a person goes through life without being touched they're going to be less healthy physically and mentally, relationships are far more healthier when couples make a habit of touching each other often, the list goes on and on. A man who touches women will get them in bed faster and keep them around longer.

 

[BeDJ]

I'd like you to elaborate a few things in your 5 easy steps in getting laid and spinning plates. I think it's beneficial to men who are struggling, as you deem it an art and easy at the same time.

1. and 2. are the same regurgitated information spoken over and over again. There is no difference from whoever said it 15 years ago. What would help men (older than 14 years old) is HOW TO MAKING FLIRTING AND KINO EASY.

Especially in #2, you are advising men to simply TOUCH TOUCH TOUCH. What leads up to the touch? You didn't touch up on that. How do you go from 0-60?

You should clarify about touching her the right way, because not many guys out there are up to speed with female response as you.

And then.....

Point number 3. It went from introduction to fvck.
Hi, I'm BeDJ. You seem to have an amazing smile. Care you suck my d!ck?

Elaborate?

#4 is absolutely true. The reason why you begin to pursue you is their fear of being pumped and dumped. They must come up with every reason under the sun why they got fvcked. From my experience, indifference did more harm than good in securing plates. Well, fvck it - I jizzed and she didn't seem all that special anyways.

Number 5) might as well contradicts with #4. The moment that a woman feels the most vulnerable is after fvcking a new partner. Fvcking a women will achieve 50% of the relationship progress. Keeping them around for a month or two is an INSANELY tedious task. In my experience, women want to get exclusive after a few weeks - one month at most. They are simple reactive creatures where they want to "fee satisfaction" in the moment. This goes along your favors, when she is giggling and enjoying her time, GO FOR IT.

Not to hijack this thread, but here is my experience.

Connection. Connection. Connection. Ask her questions, regardless if you give a sh!t or not. Use her answers to further the rapport.

Hey Play_HerMan, that's an awesome post you made. What inspired you to write about it?
............
No way! I was thinking about doing the same thing over at xyz forum. Did those come from experience or just free writing? Got any tips on writing such a creative post?
...............
Whoa, how did you experiences reflect upon the post?
etc. etc.

Asking questions is the easiest way to connect with someone because people love talking. They love love love it. About themselves, about their kids, about their jobs, it's endless.

Talking to a woman is somewhat different, you have to pull the sexuality from them. It's that hot button, you know when you hit it according to their body language and answer to the question. For kino, it's been said since the dawn of time is the earlier the better. Establish that initial NON-CREEPY contact the moment you can. Given the introductory hug, I ALWAYS give an extra 2 secs in there, but SLIDE MY HAND DOWN HER BACK when breaking it. It gives me position as well as gauge her reaction to it. If she doesn't feel disgusted, it's the trojan horse. I can continue to press more kino until her body language says otherwise.

Progressing into intimacy is taking her mind from the normal to the pleasure state. Intrigue her emotions. Easy way to do it is by asking 'What if' questions. It's Pandora's box, sometimes you will hear sh!t that you don't want to know. The sooner you have her revealing stupid sh!t about herself, the better your odds of getting laid. At some point in the conversation, you have to throw the Decoy out there. Something significantly relevant to the topic in hand, but can be forgotten in a moment's notice. For example, she says she loves hiking. Tell her you did a 14er and brought back an amazing rock at the peak. Pssssst. It could be a rock you found in your backyard. It's a Decoy to get her back to your place at the end of the night. It's really up to her to say yes or no. It's pretty much how she feels about you throughout the night and the Decoy is simply an excuse to fvck you.

To be continued: Spinning plates

 

[BeDJ]

Plate spinning is not very different from dating. Granted, there are some plates that you want to spin more than others. Just like how there are more women you want to date than others. Understand that the plates you have right now will not be there a day or a week from now. They all have an expiration date, regardless of how awesome you are. It simply happens, simply accept it. Sometimes, you can prolong the expiration date and milk it for what it is worth, but in the end, someone catches feelings and the rest is history.

Disclaimer: The following is not trying to convert a plate into a girlfriend.

You must let your prospect know early on that you are 'testing the waters' make up an excuse if you have to. This will make it much easier for her to move on once you declare your forever bachelorhood to her. Women move on fairly quickly, but once in a while, you'll find the dead possum on your doorstep.

Never. Never. Never EVER call a plate past 3AM. Guilty as charged, those phone conversations were a nightmare, good thing I can't remember any of it. It's better to jack off once than to ruin 3 plates in one night. Fvck. Who am I kidding, I'll never learn...

Reward? Eh. The most I ever gave was a bottle of liquor for hot drunken sex. If you feel the need to gift a plate, you are a doing it wrong. The moment you start giving, they will expect receiving gifts. Don't do it.

As far as scheduling, always keep it random. Don't be disappointed if she can't make it. On to the next. What you want to do is train your plates for a random booty call Just don't make it after 3AM. SERIOUSLY.

Expect her to drop the bomb at any given moment. The times to watch for it is after sex, insane laughter, THAT LOOK, venting, whenever. Simply respond - You seem really cool, I want to know more about you. Understand that this is when the timer starts. You can only be Houdini for so long. Everentually it ends. Knowing it will end eventually will allow you to move on quickly.

 

[Lotus Effect]

Even though Plate spinning is an art that is used with maestry only by the experts, this post of yours simplyfied it down to a level an AFC can easily understand and apply.

Congratulations PHM. Excelent post, with simple, yet great insight.

I've been on the gruby side of the road this last few months after being dumped, but this just (re)opened my eyes on how easy dealing with women should be.

Repped!

 

[PlayHer Man]

I'd like you to elaborate a few things in your 5 easy steps in getting laid and spinning plates. I think it's beneficial to men who are struggling, as you deem it an art and easy at the same time.

1. and 2. are the same regurgitated information spoken over and over again. There is no difference from whoever said it 15 years ago. What would help men (older than 14 years old) is HOW TO MAKING FLIRTING AND KINO EASY.

Especially in #2, you are advising men to simply TOUCH TOUCH TOUCH. What leads up to the touch? You didn't touch up on that. How do you go from 0-60?

You should clarify about touching her the right way, because not many guys out there are up to speed with female response as you.

And then.....

Listen its as simple as I'm making it. If its complex.. that means the girl isn't attracted to you. Flirting just means a sexual vibe. Being warm and playfully teasing.

Once she responds well to flirting you simply start touching her. Prior to the number close only touch her arms, hands, and shoulders. If you're in a club or bar touch any body part you want AFTER she responds well to flirting. I don't suggest "grabbing" boobs though for anyone new to the game.

Point number 3. It went from introduction to fvck.
Hi, I'm BeDJ. You seem to have an amazing smile. Care you suck my d!ck?

Elaborate?

#3 is once you're out on a "date" or she is alone with you.

Number 5) might as well contradicts with #4. The moment that a woman feels the most vulnerable is after fvcking a new partner. Fvcking a women will achieve 50% of the relationship progress. Keeping them around for a month or two is an INSANELY tedious task. In my experience, women want to get exclusive after a few weeks - one month at most. They are simple reactive creatures where they want to "fee satisfaction" in the moment. This goes along your favors, when she is giggling and enjoying her time, GO FOR IT.

If a woman considers your value high enough.. she can be a plate for months easily. She will date and f*ck others, but she will still be sexually available to you if she believes you will "give in" one day.

Its all about being hot and cold. Women are addicted to the emotional roller-coaster. Ever hear of "on again off again"?

Not to hijack this thread, but here is my experience.

Connection. Connection. Connection. Ask her questions, regardless if you give a sh!t or not. Use her answers to further the rapport.

Asking questions is the easiest way to connect with someone because people love talking. They love love love it. About themselves, about their kids, about their jobs, it's endless.

Talking to a woman is somewhat different, you have to pull the sexuality from them. It's that hot button, you know when you hit it according to their body language and answer to the question. For kino, it's been said since the dawn of time is the earlier the better. Establish that initial NON-CREEPY contact the moment you can. Given the introductory hug, I ALWAYS give an extra 2 secs in there, but SLIDE MY HAND DOWN HER BACK when breaking it. It gives me position as well as gauge her reaction to it. If she doesn't feel disgusted, it's the trojan horse. I can continue to press more kino until her body language says otherwise.

Progressing into intimacy is taking her mind from the normal to the pleasure state. Intrigue her emotions. Easy way to do it is by asking 'What if' questions. It's Pandora's box, sometimes you will hear sh!t that you don't want to know. The sooner you have her revealing stupid sh!t about herself, the better your odds of getting laid. At some point in the conversation, you have to throw the Decoy out there. Something significantly relevant to the topic in hand, but can be forgotten in a moment's notice. For example, she says she loves hiking. Tell her you did a 14er and brought back an amazing rock at the peak. Pssssst. It could be a rock you found in your backyard. It's a Decoy to get her back to your place at the end of the night. It's really up to her to say yes or no. It's pretty much how she feels about you throughout the night and the Decoy is simply an excuse to fvck you.

There are many mental games you can play. It all depends on what you want and what you enjoy. Some guys like to get deep. I'm not a deep guy when it comes to women. F*cking is like a good meal to me.

I also don't believe in postering or DHV. A high value man has nothing to prove to a woman. I simply flirt and touch.. then pound her at the first opportunity. I don't wait for a green light.. or analyze her. I just make moves until the girl stops me.

Once you get her in the physical zone and she knows she's with a man who knows what the f*ck he's doing.. she will usually submit.

 

[Epimanes]

Reminds me of the matrix when morpheous says to neo "stop TRYING to hit me and hit me!"

The SS version is "stop TRYING to pick up women and pick up women!"

 

[lgbs2004]

I miss this guy!! Sosuave has become a Fag Galore after his banishment!

 

[El Payaso]

I miss this guy!! Sosuave has become a Fag Galore after his banishment!

Lol. You used the word fag. Uh, oh. You might upset a few members who will send the mods out on you.

 

[Partizan]

I can't believe that dude got banned. He was one of my favorite posters. Some thin skinned mofo's around here.

 

[adam225]

It's about time he gets his ass back on here. Legend....

 

[BeDJ]

They all have an expiration date

This guy lol

Anyways, back to the OP, you always have to DHV (Demonstrate higher value.) This can come from being socially aware and presenting yourself to the best. Anyone who disagrees will be missing out on HUGE opportunities. Even if you are high value man yourself, it means nothing if no one else recognizes it, similar to an over-worked tech geek. If no one realizes your potential, are you the top candidate for a promotion?

I would like to add that KINO happens much earlier and much before you ever know her interest. I use KINO in my introduction, regardless of how 'open' she may be. It leads the way to fight or flight.

Overall, I like PlayHer_Man's mentality. There may be a lot of social situations that will nullify the effectiveness on said strategy. Not to discredit the OP and his mentality, but I honestly believe the social aspect is very lacking.