I have noticed something in my approaches and response with women. I can't quite call it a surefire tip but would love feedback on this.
Approaches
LOWER ODDS
If girls are walking in the bar and passing by you, never start a conversation, they might be going to the bathroom or whatever, and it rarely works. I have numerous experiences and the odds are low that they will stop
If you have to walk up to them from far away and they see you (ex from across the bar), it has lower success rates as well. They get on the defensive
The best approach is made when you are standing as a group nearby them and are already in the vicinity of them. This occurs if you are standing watching a band or ordering a drink, etc. I can't say exactly why this is always better other than it seems to be a much more casual way to start a conversation.
Any comments on that? Have you had similar experiences?
Approaches
LOWER ODDS
If girls are walking in the bar and passing by you, never start a conversation, they might be going to the bathroom or whatever, and it rarely works. I have numerous experiences and the odds are low that they will stop
If you have to walk up to them from far away and they see you (ex from across the bar), it has lower success rates as well. They get on the defensive
The best approach is made when you are standing as a group nearby them and are already in the vicinity of them. This occurs if you are standing watching a band or ordering a drink, etc. I can't say exactly why this is always better other than it seems to be a much more casual way to start a conversation.
Any comments on that? Have you had similar experiences?
