"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Apologi ! ! !

DJ HOSSIX

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Long story short, the girl that ive been working my game on and waiting for the right time in the near future to establish an LTR with and i had gotten in a fight on my birthday.

Since Monday(april 10, birthday) we havent talked.

Her best friend told me what was wrong. She said that i was way to arrogant (which is sorta true, i didnt have the intention 2 but it happend), the girl called me 4 in the morning to say happy birthday, brought me ballons, and so forth.

But i was too mean and didnt give the right response (i said it was sweet of her and thank you). When i picked her and her best friend up for dinner things went smoothly.

In the car we were roughing and she jokingly told me not to touch her and i responded with "u keep ur hands off me, you have cooties." and gently shoved her.

Supposdly from before since i didnt respond right to her actions she was moody and after what i had just done she became more moody.

I accept my faults

But how do i appologize in a way that gets my point out clear and doesnt make me a total AFC.

I want something like the appologi from the movie "Just Friends"
something to get the mood back.

Also after the appologi i dont want to suck up to her and cause her to lose more interest in me than she already has.

She still seems to have feelings for me but with a crushed heart. Not saying she home crying for me all day long, she still is living her life.

So what tips and comments do you have.

All is appreciated

Thanks A Million
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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uhhhhhhhhhh

why the hell are you apologizing again?

and fvck that movie man. It's a goddamn MOVIE. <---
 

DJ HOSSIX

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I havent apologized yet.

ya true bro, fvck the dramatic movie line apologi.

I dont know if it is only me, but whenever a girl gets upset i always feel like expressing my feelings would be the best way.

I know that by far is the worst thing, and most AFC thing a guy could do.

So should i just call her up and have a talk and if she still is tripping out then ill just move on.
 

coder

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If you apoligize for saying she has cooties, you are an AFC. If she can't take a little teasing, she is an insecure loser and you should forget about her. You should just act like nothing has happened and move on. Tease her more.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJ HOSSIX

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shes not mad about that.

shes mad that i didnt appreciate all the things she did for me on my birthday.

she feels like i dont care about her
 
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