"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Anti-DonJuan experiments

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Confidence? Bah! Time to teach you all what it really means to successfully learn a new strategy for life.

I hope you are all ready.

Learning preys on your insecurites. It is an emotional process that is difficult to maintain due to chemicals iny our brain.

Want to know my secret to learning new techniques out on the field and still BEING MYSELF?

Some call it spontaniety, I take a step back, and than take two forward;) It's along the lines of imagination. What is my secret to creating attraction?

Making a fool of myself, but being mysterious, they can hear the sexual and masculine undertones. It is difficult to achieve, but I believe I have finally found the essence of achieving flow...:D

I have found out how to live in the NOW.

I have found the key to being patiently active.

I think about what I become, by always being aware.

My awareness radius, is solely between me and the person I am talking to. If tehre are others around who are important to me, if I have created prior rapport, the radius stretches to them, while still encompassing who I am focusing on...

Innuendo, insinuation, inducing emotions. Those are the keys to creating attraction, tell me I am wrong.

I am going to lead you on my journey through life. One notion of life at a time.

First off, the initial impression. What is most important to YOU in terms of a first impression?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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