When you demand the truth it is often guarded. When you accept the truth it is often given.Last Man Standing said:
Seriously, which type of guy is more likely to see a woman for who she is?
I don't always like what I see, but I ACCEPT what I see.
I hate to say this because it might seem kinda gay, but in some ways I talk to and relate to woman as one of her female peers would. I am careful not to cross the line by giving off the vibe that we can "talk like girlfriends" (they still know I am a Man), but I always let women know through MY covert and overt communication that I am willing to ACCEPT anything they tell me.
And when you do this, you will see an entirely different side of women. They will share their sexual past with you. Not all of it, but most of it. They will tell you stuff they won't even tell their BEST FRIEND. Hell, I was involved in a candid convo with a chick recently who confided in me that she had been involved in a threesome in the past, and asked me not to tell anyone, including her best friend. The only reason she told me this was because a) she knows she can tell me anything and I won't tell anyone else, and b) she knows she can tell me anything and I won't judge her and throw it back in her face.
Talking to another female friend the other day about this subject, and she came right out and told me that she is willing to share personal details of her life with me that she won't share with anyone else.
Women long for a masculine man who will allow them to be the person they are rather than having to constantly put on a facade.
