futuresuccess2161
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What are everyone's thoughts on guys totally letting themselves go and getting complacent during relationships? I myself had to get my heart broken to realize how much I stopped caring about the way I looked and acted because I thought my LTR and first love would be around forever.....which wasn't the case and learned that the hard way.
But now that I'm on the other side I notice that pretty much the majority of my buddies who are all in relationships don't place nearly as much of an emphasis on growing in every single aspect of their life. And now I'm thinking that this realization is a huge blessing in disguise for me come future relationships. Plus, if my ex would've stayed with me I would've stayed complacent and not cared about my body, performance at work, etc.
Wanted to see what everyone's thoughts were on this topic and if you have witnessed the same thing where LTR's seem to be killing the dreams and goals of men who were previously hard workers?
But now that I'm on the other side I notice that pretty much the majority of my buddies who are all in relationships don't place nearly as much of an emphasis on growing in every single aspect of their life. And now I'm thinking that this realization is a huge blessing in disguise for me come future relationships. Plus, if my ex would've stayed with me I would've stayed complacent and not cared about my body, performance at work, etc.
Wanted to see what everyone's thoughts were on this topic and if you have witnessed the same thing where LTR's seem to be killing the dreams and goals of men who were previously hard workers?
