"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Alpha male paradigm

KarmaSutra

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There isn't much in the way of Alpha men on television these days. The exception being the Alan Shore and Denny Crane characters on Boston Legal. Both are congruent, Self confident, slightly apathetic to everyone but themselves, and best of all they're in it for the women.

These are the Big Dogs pissing in the tall weeds. Guys who don't apologize for being men and having desires and,most importantly, having the sac to go and get what they want when they want it. No matter the cost.

I noticed something in last weeks episode, the way Spader held eye contact with Parker Posie. It had everything in 11 seconds. Drama, Efficiancy, Delegation and High regard for thier self worth. It was a moment singed into my core. The first season comes to dvd on the 23rd. Do yourselves a favor and get it. Learn it, Live it, Love it.

Any thoughts fellas?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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I thought you were going to explain a paradigm to us. Not recommend a TV show.

My thoughts, what is your rebuttal?
 

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I'm not out to persuade anyone to watch anything (albeit, it IS the best show on television).

My point is that the characters on this particular tv show have the Alpha/DJ qualities some of the brothers here wouldn't understand with only the written word to guide them. I believe there are a couple of wonderful examples that brothers here can watch and envision to get off thier asses and learn what it is men should strive for.
 
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