"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Alpha Male example

JohnyTheArrow

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Meet the new boy king of technology, 22-year-old Palmer Luckey. Visionaries see his 3D virtual reality headset as a real life-changer – the future of education, business, medicine and more – and Mark Zuckerberg paid $2.3 billion to acquire his company, Oculus Rift.

What is more alpha than a billionere ?


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JohnyTheArrow said:
What is more alpha than a billionaire ?
The rapper, DJ, or indie rockstar who could steal his girlfriend for a night away in Ibiza.

Alpha is relative to the point of irrelevancy. Women change like the weather and live in the now. The Alpha changes the same.
 

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I assume OP is trolling. But I will throw some pearls into this pile of sh*t thread anyway...

What I have realized in my time around the block is that "alphaness" is entirely situational. You might have a guy who is totally dominant in, say, The Octagon but can't say a word without stammering when he's in front of an audience. Or whatever.

A guy who's totally alpha in bed with his girlfriend may be humiliated repeatedly by the boss at his job at the local pizza joint.

A good movie exploring this topic is "The Wrestler," where the main character was an alpha in the ring but everywhere else... not so much.

Just as with a career, every guy has to determine his "alpha specialty." You'll attract chicks in those situations. If your alpha specialty is some activity where there are few women, well you're gonna have a f*cking lonely life :)
 
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