"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JohnyTheArrow

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Meet the new boy king of technology, 22-year-old Palmer Luckey. Visionaries see his 3D virtual reality headset as a real life-changer – the future of education, business, medicine and more – and Mark Zuckerberg paid $2.3 billion to acquire his company, Oculus Rift.

What is more alpha than a billionere ?


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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JohnyTheArrow said:
What is more alpha than a billionaire ?
The rapper, DJ, or indie rockstar who could steal his girlfriend for a night away in Ibiza.

Alpha is relative to the point of irrelevancy. Women change like the weather and live in the now. The Alpha changes the same.
 

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I assume OP is trolling. But I will throw some pearls into this pile of sh*t thread anyway...

What I have realized in my time around the block is that "alphaness" is entirely situational. You might have a guy who is totally dominant in, say, The Octagon but can't say a word without stammering when he's in front of an audience. Or whatever.

A guy who's totally alpha in bed with his girlfriend may be humiliated repeatedly by the boss at his job at the local pizza joint.

A good movie exploring this topic is "The Wrestler," where the main character was an alpha in the ring but everywhere else... not so much.

Just as with a career, every guy has to determine his "alpha specialty." You'll attract chicks in those situations. If your alpha specialty is some activity where there are few women, well you're gonna have a f*cking lonely life :)
 
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