"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Alpha Female

Turnthemusicup

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Im sure that everyone can relate to this in one way or another. What to do with the Alpha Female. For those who dont know what i mean ill explain a little bit more what i mean by "alpha female."

Alpha Female - Overpowering l3itch that not only clearly enjoys treating every male she meets as her personal slave (IE "do this for me NOW or ill kick you in the balls" mentality but also completely dominates all girls.

Sure all girls have some of this in them but the Alpha Female is a femanine nazi that no girl and most guys wont dare cross.

My current strategy is to show absolutely no respect, openly point out their faults and when they are wrong, and demand respect.

So how do you deal with this kind of woman?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Black Circle

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You don't deal with this kind of woman. They are worthless, you don't go near them.
 

Colinski282

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Dude she she sounds immature. Really you can either A. try to TAME her (sometimes u just gotta ALMOST be a d!ck) or B . Say fvck that, more fish in the sea. It is not an option to be overpowered! Either A or B
 

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LOL i messed up a bit in my topic, I wanted to know how you deal with one in a social environment not try to get with her. The dificulty is most girls fear and love them at the same time.
 

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That sh!t is a turn off.

I don't know about you but constant threats to my ego and well being doesn really spring it up for me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Alpha Female" :crackup:

Funny ****, you made my day.

She's just some random bytch, why bother when there are women who are open?
 

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i don't agree....

just as there is a hierarchy among males, there is definitely a hierarchy among women... why do you think they are so catty in their competition to be top chick? most attractive? most wanted?

alpha chick is HOT. alpha chick knows through every hour and every day of her life that men want her. she KNOWS she is in demand. she KNOWS that she has an effect on every man that crosses her path.

she is the female james bond. guys want to fvck her, girls want to be her.

imagine the psychology of a chick like that?
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and that is the trick here. i've had other threads where the point was to discuss the psychology of the HOT chick.

one thing that the dj community deals with with a chainsaw instead of a scalpel is catering technique to SPECIFIC KINDS of women.

sure, some general things work across the board (even on men!) - but other things must be catered to the psychology of, if not the specific PERSON, but the specific KIND of person.

proper behavior SEEMS to revolve around presenting NOVELTY!

you never ever compliment a hot chick. she knows it (don't you dare fool yourself into thinking she doesn't) and she's heard it millions of times (hundreds in a day probably).

but you MIGHT INDEED think about complimenting a 6 or 7. cuz they don't get it that much.
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in the case of the op, best way to deal with her socially is treat her as a bully. don't give her any control over you (if she actively seeks it, she is an attention wh0re), don't bend over backwards for her in any way (though that is HARD) and JUST TREAT HER LIKE ANYONE ELSE.

other girls may seem to admire her but they also hate her. and you might grow tremendously in stature in their eyes if you just brush her off as another human being.

delta
 

Freddy1

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A so called alpha female would be a butch dyke at a lesbian bar.
Cant get any more gross than that.
 

Delta

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no... that would be a woman trying to imitate an alpha male....

alpha female means the top chick in the female hierarchy. hottest of the hot.

delta
 
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