The All Important "After the Date"

[JackPrescott]

Again, this shows a TRUE level of interest from the woman. A woman who is interested in a man, will do whatever it takes to prolong the date, especially if the chemistry is good. I have been out on a date with an INTERESTED and sexually turned on woman, and (We met at a concert) she wanted to eat, so we spent 2 hours at a pancake house, and then 3 more parked in front of her dad's home, making out like teenagers, and then another hour on the phone until the dawn.

Another woman I was with, on the second date, after the movie and a scorching kiss in her car, got talked back to her place for a night of incredible passion, and the most perfect weekend.

On the down side, I have been with women who wanted OUT as soon as humanly possible. One, after accepting an invitation to the date, told me on the day of the date she was taking "her car and would meet me down there" basically so she could take off after the dinner and event, to go party WITHOUT ME.

Another fell asleep during the movie, and when I suggested we leave, because the movie sucked "was really tired and was going to bed"...without me of course...


And then there is the inevitable, "I have to work in the morning" excuse when they dont want you at their place.

 

[CLOONEY]

Or then there are the girls who know the game and dont want to seem too keen too soon. Or the ones who are not sl*ts and dont want you inside their place on their bed within the first few dates.

 

[CLOONEY]

Or how about the girls who prolong the date, staying with you for hours and hours, and then tell you they "have to work in the morning"? A paradox?

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by JackPrescott
Another fell asleep during the movie, and when I suggested we leave, because the movie sucked "was really tired and was going to bed"...without me of course...

If a women falls asleep while your on a date with her..........

 

[JackPrescott]

Re: Re: The All Important "After the Date"

Originally posted by spider_007
If a women falls asleep while your on a date with her..........

Even I'll agree that was pathetic, but, what can you do?

 

[diablo]

Re: Re: Re: The All Important "After the Date"

Originally posted by JackPrescott
Even I'll agree that was pathetic, but, what can you do?

Um... not go on a date to a movie in the first place? Do a search for "action dates"... if you'd read the DJB you'd know already that bringing a girl to the movies on one of your early dates is a no-no. Your story just proves why it's not a good idea.

 

[frivolousz21]

Um... not go on a date to a movie in the first place? Do a search for "action dates"... if you'd read the DJB you'd know already that bringing a girl to the movies on one of your early dates is a no-no. Your story just proves why it's not a good idea.

that depends on if you both really really really want to see a certain movie.

if you meet a girl that likes Star wars by chance.

I dont think taking her to see the new one coming out is a bad idea.

but if you just take her and she isnt into movies..then it could be an issue..but I still think you are the NUMBER 1 thing on the date not the date!

 

[JackPrescott]

Re: Re: Re: Re: The All Important "After the Date"

Originally posted by diablo
Um... not go on a date to a movie in the first place? Do a search for "action dates"... if you'd read the DJB you'd know already that bringing a girl to the movies on one of your early dates is a no-no. Your story just proves why it's not a good idea.

Yes and no, I have went to a movie (Early date) with an interested woman, and it was a hell of a movie, I have no idea what was on the screen, but the chemistry was HOTT.

I went to a movie with an uninterested woman, and it was boring for both of us.

 

[backbreaker]

now, this is what I did for a while, some advice I actually got from my dad (talk about fatherly advice, you don't want to know the things me and my dad talk about)


Not ALL the times, depending on who I was going out with, but more times than not, and this only applies if you have more than 1 female friend, is that I would schedule another girl metting me at my house later that night "AFTER" the date I have with the girl I am taking out.

This does 2 things.

1. It easies you up during th edate... the date isn't an interview for you to see if you get some ***** or get to "go to 2nd base", because you already know in the back of your head "hey babe, I am ****ing tonight.... might not be you, but if you play your cards right we can work something out, if not, go home so I can get my serve on"

2. It makes you more of a challenge. You never want to prolong the date... always leave her wanting more. Right when you really start connecting (at least at first), cut it, go home, get in some *****.

It almost backfired on me one day because my date left her glasses at my house and came to get them.... at 2 in the morning, but I happened to have her glasses sitting on my talbe by the front door and I played like I was sleep so she wouldn't come in and played like I was irriated by her coming that late.