Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
35 ??? u think 35 is old ??
i think 50-55 is old .
i think 50-55 is old .
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Age...What Age is old?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Old" is whatever age you decide to become old yourself. Think of it as a limiter, a reason (excuse) for you to omit things from your life; a cut off point.
Got to thinking, I just started lifting again about 9 months ago, I can bench 250, squat 250 dead lift 280 and curl 110, as I said on a previous post i'm a young 54...how many of you guys can match those numbers, if you can't your old!!!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LostAndConfused
Master Don Juan
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Once you hit 19 you are officially old.
Makes me sad as I approach it.
Makes me sad as I approach it.
LostAndConfused said:Once you hit 19 you are officially old.
Makes me sad as I approach it.
Forget the rest of the ice berg... you havn't even reached the tip yet!
19 is a young, dumb age to be--This comming to you from a young, dumb 24 year old who barely even remembers being 17.
Last Man Standing
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Old is ALWAYS an age older than yourself!!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
old is when you start getting away with stuff because you can say "im old" and then knock them over with a cane. old is when you get ice cream just because its tuesday at the retirement center.
old is when people start asking you who will be in charge of your estate ...
old is when people start asking you who will be in charge of your estate ...
ThreeStorms
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All people panicking at the thought of getting 30, 40 or 50:
Remember that these are only special numbers because we use the decimal system. A cultural construct. It means nothing.
Remember that these are only special numbers because we use the decimal system. A cultural construct. It means nothing.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.