"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The AFC's Anthem?

maranathaman

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In that currently popular song "The Reason" by Hoobastank,
when I read the Lyrics, it kinda seems AFC to me.
I DO like the Song alot, however, if the average guy that wasn't a famous Rock Star, said that kinda stuff to most American women, they would think he was a whipped AFC...
Am I right?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Almost all songs by men written about love are AFC songs. They are always about how they want the girl to come back and how they can't believe how lucky they are that they found a girl like that. Music and media is one of the main reasons there are so many real AFC's out there, along with movies and bullshit propaganda about what the perfect boyfriend should be. The guys might not really be AFC, they just sing what sells.
 

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She's So High by Tal Bachman ('97). I really like the tune, and I (wince) sing it at karaoke bars now and then, but the lyrics are pure AFC. I even punctuate a few of the lyric lines with (NOT) when I sing it ;-)
 

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Here's what you need to understand about music: the songs people most identify with are the songs that are about universal problem (lonliness, alientation)

although these things are the things you all attribute to being AFC, in all reality these songs aren't written because the guy who writes them is a big chump, they are written because the guy who writes them knows that people can IDENTIFY with problems like lonliness and alienation, and love.

quit identifying songs as AFC. It doesn't really help much anyway. Just realize these songs are written because the person that writes them knows that he's writing about something that everyone can identify with.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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^ right on

i saw hoobastank in STL a while back... it was the worst show i have ever been to.
 

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Sounds like someone needs a testosterone shot!

Good boost song:


Dope - Die Motherf*cker Die
 

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Best songs to give a boost:

metallica - hit the lights
slayer - raining blood
dragonforce - my spirit will go on

actually just about anything by dragonforce, cheesy power metal.

hammerfall - Legend Reborn
Iced Earth - Stand Alone
Kreator - Extreme agression
Danzig - Mother
Running wild - Calico Jack
Death - Spirit Crusher
Deicide - Serpents of the Light (satanic, but good music)
Deicide - Once upon the cross (same)

i can name hundreds more
 

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Originally posted by DJD
She's So High by Tal Bachman ('97). I really like the tune, and I (wince) sing it at karaoke bars now and then, but the lyrics are pure AFC. I even punctuate a few of the lyric lines with (NOT) when I sing it ;-)
Oh, God. I vomit everytime I hear that song now. They used to play that crap over and over 6 years ago when i was flipping burgers at some fast food joint.
 
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