"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The AFC is dead!

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Hi all. Just got back from a date with a HB8 I met in a club on Sat. I'll save you the boredom of an in-depth, transcribed FR and get to the important bit.

What was unique wasn't that I said or did anything in particular, but that I've finally started to integrate this stuff into my personality rather than just acting like it. Normally a date with a HB8 or above would bring out every pvssyish AFC trait I ever had, which in the old days I used to indulge, then learned to suppress since getting into this stuff.

Tonight though, even the thought of seeing a woman brought out my alpha-male, real man side, completely effortlessly. All of what I've learned came naturally because of the understandings of the dynamics of it all. I've finally lost the PC bullsh1t about being a Nice Guy and was on fire as a result. Needless to say she was all over me!

So the point of this is really advice to keep going with this stuff, and don't waste time with learning canned routines, scripted DHV stories and all that cr@p. Get to learn, understand and see in everyday life the real dynamics underlying male-female interactions, then you will automatically say and do the right thing.

I'd be interested to hear from others who have finally killed that nagging AFC voice and have become something approaching a natural.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BadsnakeUK said:
Hi all. Just got back from a date with a HB8 I met in a club on Sat. I'll save you the boredom of an in-depth, transcribed FR and get to the important bit.

What was unique wasn't that I said or did anything in particular, but that I've finally started to integrate this stuff into my personality rather than just acting like it. Normally a date with a HB8 or above would bring out every pvssyish AFC trait I ever had, which in the old days I used to indulge, then learned to suppress since getting into this stuff.

Tonight though, even the thought of seeing a woman brought out my alpha-male, real man side, completely effortlessly. All of what I've learned came naturally because of the understandings of the dynamics of it all. I've finally lost the PC bullsh1t about being a Nice Guy and was on fire as a result. Needless to say she was all over me!

So the point of this is really advice to keep going with this stuff, and don't waste time with learning canned routines, scripted DHV stories and all that cr@p. Get to learn, understand and see in everyday life the real dynamics underlying male-female interactions, then you will automatically say and do the right thing.

I'd be interested to hear from others who have finally killed that nagging AFC voice and have become something approaching a natural.
May he RIP, good for you.
 
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BadsnakeUK said:
Hi all. Just got back from a date with a HB8 I met in a club on Sat. I'll save you the boredom of an in-depth, transcribed FR and get to the important bit.

What was unique wasn't that I said or did anything in particular, but that I've finally started to integrate this stuff into my personality rather than just acting like it. Normally a date with a HB8 or above would bring out every pvssyish AFC trait I ever had, which in the old days I used to indulge, then learned to suppress since getting into this stuff.

Tonight though, even the thought of seeing a woman brought out my alpha-male, real man side, completely effortlessly. All of what I've learned came naturally because of the understandings of the dynamics of it all. I've finally lost the PC bullsh1t about being a Nice Guy and was on fire as a result. Needless to say she was all over me!

So the point of this is really advice to keep going with this stuff, and don't waste time with learning canned routines, scripted DHV stories and all that cr@p. Get to learn, understand and see in everyday life the real dynamics underlying male-female interactions, then you will automatically say and do the right thing.

I'd be interested to hear from others who have finally killed that nagging AFC voice and have become something approaching a natural.

Well, what happened on the date? Did you get some tongue action? My last date I was making out with her in 30 min, and layed her 2 days later. My AFC is dead too! And I don't want it to come back.
 

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Yeah plenty of tongue action + her telling me how hot/sexy/manly I am and saying how she loves how confident I am. Basically she's really into me. Of course knowing women it could all change in a few days/weeks/months but hey, I'm anjoying it while it lasts. Happy days!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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