"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The AFC inside is fighting back.

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So I've been slowly, casually making progress on the path to becoming a DJ (well, really just a better person), but lately something's happened. All the girls have caught on, they've been showing HUGE signs of interest and I see them. The problem is that I've been hit by these signs all in a few days and I'm overwhelmed. The AFC voice is coming back, it's remembering how cute it is when she does a certain thing, or how beautiful, etc etc etc...

I've got to kill this voice, because it's getting stronger. I've acted like a huge AFC around all these chicks lately, and I've been thinking about them too much. What the hell can I do? Or if you don't have some advice, harsh words like "shut up and be a MAN!" would probably help right now.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Glycerine2
I got no problem pullin' in chicks. Here's a pic of me:

My pic
The link says forbidden access.


Gee, let me guess... It was a linked photo of Brad Pitt or something? Ha ha ha. That is so funny. You see, what you did was take a picture of a well known celebrity, and led us to believe that it was you. Thus misdirecting us into momemtarily believing that an airbrushed photo of Mr. Pitt could somehow actually belong to a member of sosauve! Genius. Truely genius. You are soooooooooo funny! You really are. Ha ha ha. Are you a writer for 'Family Guy' or something. Chris Rock has nothing on you. Move over Jerry Seinfeld, Glycerine2 is taking the world by storm!!! :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Bradshaw
The link says forbidden access.


Gee, let me guess... It was a linked photo of Brad Pitt or something? Ha ha ha. That is so funny. You see, what you did was take a picture of a well known celebrity, and led us to believe that it was you. Thus misdirecting us into momemtarily believing that an airbrushed photo of Mr. Pitt could somehow actually belong to a member of sosauve! Genius. Truely genius. You are soooooooooo funny! You really are. Ha ha ha. Are you a writer for 'Family Guy' or something. Chris Rock has nothing on you. Move over Jerry Seinfeld, Glycerine2 is taking the world by storm!!! :rolleyes:
Stop trying to act smart....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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