The Advice on Here Does Work

[jaymbrs]

I've been receiving some very honest responses from a couple of women I've been seeing lately. I've specifically asked them to tell me their thoughts so I could share here.

She loves when I give a compliment and then take it back. She can't explain it, she says.

She loves that I know when to cut her off when she's talking too much - i.e. take charge

She loves that I'm decisive - says as a boss at work, she gets tired of making decisions 24/7

She loves how I'm unfazed when she brings up exes - shows security

She loves that I'm not nice all the time - says it doesn't make me seem like I'm desperate and/or trying too hard

She loves that I don't text her during the week. It makes her miss me.

She loves that I like keeping some things separated and doing my own thing from time to time. It allows her to continue living her life.


I really want you struggling fellas to understand that while every piece of advice is not a one size fits all, these basic things seem to work on most women and before you know it, they're all over you without being able to pinpoint why.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

off course this chit works.

theirs unbelievable hidden little gems of pimp knowledge buried deep in this site, look through posts from all the sosuave OGs, funny how their all banned now lol

 

[Webb91]

Who are the sosuave OGs. I’m pretty new here too. Thanks chev.

 

[ubercat]

Of course it works we re still waiting for the female nature 2.0 release.

And the usual advice - stick to your purpose and all of that will happen naturally.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Who are the sosuave OGs. I’m pretty new here too. Thanks chev.

da_dynamic old threads are pretty good

and oh should I mention poon king or is it going to start a btch fest

pook is must read chit.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

also can go here and see the top bruhs..

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/members/?type=likes

dig into their threads and you will find some AMAZING stuff if you really look. most of it is from years ago back when this site was in full swing, now 95% of the content on here is getting stale to say the least lol

 

[Chev.Chelios]

lololol thanks brotha (;

all for the inspirations <3

 

[Atom Smasher]

off course this chit works.

theirs unbelievable hidden little gems of pimp knowledge buried deep in this site, look through posts from all the sosuave OGs, funny how their all banned now lol

If you only knew how some of them went completely off the deep end behind the scenes. Real Apocalypse Now type of stuff. If I told you more, I would have to kill you.

You are correct - For the guy who doesn't mind digging through the dirt, there is a lot of gold to be mined here.

 

[jaymbrs]

If you only knew how some of them went completely off the deep end behind the scenes. Real Apocalypse Now type of stuff. If I told you more, I would have to kill you.

You are correct - For the guy who doesn't mind digging through the dirt, there is a lot of gold to be mined here.

Absolutely. And that was the focus of my post to give a condensed version of what has worked and is proven to work.

 

[Roober]

You could literally read the DJ bible and the book of pook and be set. The problem is that we live in a world where personal responsibility is taught about as much as German, very very little...

When more men take responsibility for all of their actions, success will follow. The more you externalize you're struggles and peace blame on outside conditions, people, or things, the more you will struggle.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

If you only knew how some of them went completely off the deep end behind the scenes. Real Apocalypse Now type of stuff. If I told you more, I would have to kill you.

You are correct - For the guy who doesn't mind digging through the dirt, there is a lot of gold to be mined here.

what happened tho

 

[Serenity]

what happened tho

You'll probably never get details on that, but I'd imagine their massive ego got the better of them. They probably gained so much traction with their posts and pushed the limits so hard with little consequence, that in the end they (wrongly) thought they could get away with anything. They crossed the line too hard and too many times. I remember several of them, the thing they had in common was that the underlying advice was solid, they delivered it powerfully... Often too powerfully, attacking members in senseless ways leading to drawn out fights and lots of unnecessary drama. I can only imagine lurkers hesitating to make their first post, because as soon as one of these guys posted, all hell broke loose. It created a clear division where things weren't discussed in a civil way, it was followers vs. haters in a sh!t throwing contest. Had they been allowed to prosper here, this forum would eventually have died.

This is a support forum for men struggling to get women, it should be okay to come here as a pathetic beta, get help and come out the other end a better man. That won't happen with a bunch of users immediately screaming at you what a "fvcking fagg0t" you are.

I don't think they were emotionally stable to begin with, but there's plenty of examples of such guys having great success scoring pvssy. Their advice (if you could read it through all the personal attacks) did work for the purpose of getting laid, but it came with too many problems, they disrupted the forum too much.

I don't know what happened to them in real life, but if their way of being here was a reflection of their real selves, I'd say they eventually crash and burn. Seen it in people I know so so many times.

What @jaymbrs lists is what I'd call normal behavior of a well balanced adult. Nothing fancy, nothing extreme, just the simple basics is enough to get women. I know more guys who go completely out of whack regarding women than I know guys who just remain normal. Women struggle more to pinpoint why the normal guy is attractive, because normal guys don't fit into any of the very distinctive types of guys women often see.

Is he a player? Not really.
Is he desperate and clingy? Not really.
Is he mean? Not entirely.
Is he a niceguy? Not entirely.
Is he the jealous type? Nope.

So you see, he's a bit of an interesting mystery with few to none of the negatives of any of the common types of men out there. But too often men act outside of their normal laid-back selves with women and unknowingly land themselves in one of several categories of unattractive men. I'm guilty of this, had little success. Once I stopped the act, things improved drastically and it takes zero effort to be natural, so a double win.

 

[Atom Smasher]

@Grewd , very well said.