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The absolute state of the US online dating market

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As a man he got 60 matches in 2 years (ie. which is actually quite good), and as a transwoman it became 1400.

You are doing well with online dating (ie. your stories about the Egyptian, Lebanese, ethnic women, etc...)....why would you care about this? Thought you were having an ethnic buffet.
Indeed, getting 60 matches in 2 years as a man is already a good statistic.

I think transpeople should be focused on more closely, since case studies of their different lifes have the potential to debunk so much bullshyt and affirm the enlightenment we're already reaching for. Like that woman who went undercover to live as a man and had a breakdown from it for example.
 

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This is why i want to vomit when my sister who is a former model but no better looking than me for her age complains about online dating and the men she matches with. In fact, i have heard a lot of attractive women act like OLD is the toughest thing in the world for them hahaha. Being born as even just an average looking woman is the equivalent of a male being born into an ultra wealthy family with good looks to boot. Life is literally on easy mode for them and they dont even realize it.
 

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That’s pretty sad, but pretty much matches my experience with OLD. The women in there think they’re Jessica Alba, and have the attention span of a squirrel on meth.

I honestly believe most of them are not even having regular sex. They’re just in there for the attention from the armies of white knights.
 

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Indeed, getting 60 matches in 2 years as a man is already a good statistic.

I think transpeople should be focused on more closely, since case studies of their different lifes have the potential to debunk so much bullshyt and affirm the enlightenment we're already reaching for. Like that woman who went undercover to live as a man and had a breakdown from it for example.
She has written two books. One is the undercover man, and the second one is undercover mental institution.
 

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This is why i want to vomit when my sister who is a former model but no better looking than me for her age complains about online dating and the men she matches with. In fact, i have heard a lot of attractive women act like OLD is the toughest thing in the world for them hahaha. Being born as even just an average looking woman is the equivalent of a male being born into an ultra wealthy family with good looks to boot. Life is literally on easy mode for them and they dont even realize it.
It's not that strange, it's simply solipsism from the fact that they don't experience anything other than their tutorial mode reality without any meaningful burden of performance nor any accountability in return for that leisure, and so they have no frame of reference.

If you take a child and spoil it extremely since birth, encourage it to be hedonistic and entitled, and shelter it from any negative consequence of their attitude or tell it that the people who say there are consequences for its whims are evil, you will get a similar highly spoiled solipsism.
 
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As a man he got 60 matches in 2 years (ie. which is actually quite good), and as a transwoman it became 1400.

This means you have ultra-thirsty dudes who will even compete for trans woman. It's over.
Face and LMS needs to address this tomorrow. It's the funniest show for me that makes the time pass at work. No other show in the background makes work fun for me.
 

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This is why i want to vomit when my sister who is a former model but no better looking than me for her age complains about online dating and the men she matches with. In fact, i have heard a lot of attractive women act like OLD is the toughest thing in the world for them hahaha. Being born as even just an average looking woman is the equivalent of a male being born into an ultra wealthy family with good looks to boot. Life is literally on easy mode for them and they dont even realize it.
Women actually believe most men are also getting swamped by attention on OLD
 

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Again. I know this forum is sick of the blackpill but this was picked up years ago

Trans women are killing it in dating

Women have so much value now, that anything that even resembles a woman will get matches

While most guys gets nothing. It's an absolute mess out there
 

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This sums it up very well. Men have let women become dominant here by kissing ass on social media...orbiting...white knighting...abd just acting like cucks in general.

The amount of Trans women on tinder compared to 3 years ago is astronomical. Tinder has this new feature besides that fact, when you like certain people sometimes if that person gets a lot of super likes or likes in general it asks you if you want to leave a super like? Thing is for me they ain't that hot, I've scrolled through hotter women that apparently don't have as many super likes...
 

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Again. I know this forum is sick of the blackpill but this was picked up years ago

Trans women are killing it in dating

Women have so much value now, that anything that even resembles a woman will get matches

While most guys gets nothing. It's an absolute mess out there
Haha, anything that even resembles a woman xD
 

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I have a buddy who is borderline handsome and he gets laid by 5 women a month because he works in a non profit and thats where ALL the hot young women are at. Women have no perspective. They don't know about the guy who doesn't have a social environment that has a lot of women in it.

But if you are lucky (happen to exist in an abundant social environment), things are normal like it's 1999.

At the end of the day, it's about proximity and demographics moreso than your game.
Well said, lot of these non profit organisations like animal shelters are almost exclusively women, online dating on the other hand is a sausage fest like no other and so are nightclubs.

I was able to meet a lot of women by joining a yoga meetup from meetup.com, though they only meet once a month
 

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This reminds me of the housing market crash in 2008 when home prices soared to astronomical levels unjustifiably.....

People were buying overpriced homes with adjustable rate mortgages they couldnt possibly afford.

Like all bubbles it eventually burst....

Will the dating market bubble eventually burst when unjustifiably overvalued women cant score a Chad or rope in a betabuxx....????....

I stand by my comments that COVID19 will financially wipe out the vast majority of SIMPs who will no longer be able to provide betabuxxing services to single moms that got knocked up by Chad and Tyrone....

And in this post-COVID world where lookism will the greatest selecting pressure in survival, average looking women wont be able to score a Chad, but neither will there be any financially-able SIMPs to subsidize her living expenses.....

I believe a correction will take place in the sexual market place....
 

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This reminds me of the housing market crash in 2008 when home prices soared to astronomical levels unjustifiably.....

People were buying overpriced homes with adjustable rate mortgages they couldnt possibly afford.

Like all bubbles it eventually burst....

Will the dating market bubble eventually burst when unjustifiably overvalued women cant score a Chad or rope in a betabuxx....????....

I stand by my comments that COVID19 will financially wipe out the vast majority of SIMPs who will no longer be able to provide betabuxxing services to single moms that got knocked up by Chad and Tyrone....

And in this post-COVID world where lookism will the greatest selecting pressure in survival, average looking women wont be able to score a Chad, but neither will there be any financially-able SIMPs to subsidize her living expenses.....

I believe a correction will take place in the sexual market place....
Once simps have access to afforadble S*x Bots And VR Pron, it will all be over for most women
 

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"I have options....but they aren't GOOD options" :eyeroll
Yeah, I managed to score a FWB off Tinder during lockdown when there was a wave of OLD newbies coming into Tinder/Bumble. I get the same line from her. And from what she's shown me of her Tinder feed, on average the guys chasing her are in fact low-quality. That said, she's a 6 on a good day, so she's not pulling Chads.

She can't wrap her head around the notion that I have an even lower-quality feed, which yields maybe one "like" per week.
 

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Once simps have access to afforadble S*x Bots And VR Pron, it will all be over for most women
We need to remove the stigma from escortmaxxing (where it's legal)....

Real talk: pvssy is pvssy. Let's say you got a h0e bent over and you're slamming that as5 from behind, a woman that's a 10 literally feels the same as a woman that's a 6... Pvssy, for the most part, feels the same across the board.... Yet guys are putting the pvssy on a pedestal like it's an oasis in the desert....

I see no shame in escortmaxxing (where it's legal) if it can help kill the thirst and SIMPery that's tormenting so many guys.....
 

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We need to remove the stigma from escortmaxxing (where it's legal)....

Real talk: pvssy is pvssy. Let's say you got a h0e bent over and you're slamming that as5 from behind, a woman that's a 10 literally feels the same as a woman that's a 6... Pvssy, for the most part, feels the same across the board.... Yet guys are putting the pvssy on a pedestal like it's an oasis in the desert....

I see no shame in escortmaxxing (where it's legal) if it can help kill the thirst and SIMPery that's tormenting so many guys.....
legal prostitution has value. but... we need someone smarter than me and probably you; to police it. we really don't want abuse from it, we want women that understand what they are doing; really understand and want to do it. In that case; then all we need is some price control so that it's affordable.
 

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We need to remove the stigma from escortmaxxing (where it's legal)....

Real talk: pvssy is pvssy. Let's say you got a h0e bent over and you're slamming that as5 from behind, a woman that's a 10 literally feels the same as a woman that's a 6... Pvssy, for the most part, feels the same across the board.... Yet guys are putting the pvssy on a pedestal like it's an oasis in the desert....

I see no shame in escortmaxxing (where it's legal) if it can help kill the thirst and SIMPery that's tormenting so many guys.....
Escorts are legal in australia but super expansive, you can fly to thailand for the same price as 2 hours with an escort here. Its crazy
 
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