"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The 80/20 rule

diplomatic_lie

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Has anyone know much about the 80/20 rule? I've heard about the Pareto Principle (where it says 80% of something comes from 20% of something).

One of the aspects I'm interested in is that 80% of your work can be achieved in 20% of your time. Anyone know about this area specifically? Is it that adage about improving yourself 80% of the time, and only working the other 20% more efficiently?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Re:

diplomatic_lie,

See also Brian Tracy, Jim Rohn, and Earl Nightingale.

The Premise is as such...and I'll use an example to demonstrate.

When you're in sales, you're goal is to generate the MOST income possibly for your UNIT of time. Getting the most sales DOESN'T necessarily give you the best income, though it could. You could also see VERY LARGE accounts and maximize your time, though the sales cycle might be longer.

So in sales if all that matters is the bottom-line with respect to your INCOME and GOALS, then you want to spent 80% of your time doing...

-Better selling, better customer questioning.
-Doing more interviews with prospects.
-Closing more cases.

The other 80% that only generates 20% of your income would be servicing, prospecting/marketing, and all the desk-work. That you would offload to a secretary, create a mini-automated marketing program, or hire a telemarketer at $10/hr so you could earn $100+ per hour, and net $90/hr.

In dating, what's the most influential part of the game?

The most important part is EVERYTHING you do BEFORE meeting the woman or the date. So you must put the effort into the inner game, in your life, to get a better outcome. Then, when you're sitting down with her, who you are will speak to her BETTER than your lips moving and jaw flapping. Yet, most people stress over the 20% (which is the date). Sorry, but if football players didn't practice, lift, and eat right, the game WOULD NOT be the time to work out kinks in their running style, catching style, speed, and blocking. The game is the TIME to put into action all you've practiced and give into the subconscious direction you've given it.


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I wouldn't know about that, but I am skilled at doing 20% of my work in 80% of my time. As a matter of fact, I'm even more skilled at not doing my work at all.
That's 80/20 for ya.
 

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Wasn't 80/20 developed to show that 80% of your sales comes from 20% of your customers(I know this applies to it but I believe that this was the central idea behing it)? So focus on that 20%.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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diplomatic_lie

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Sounds like a pretty interesting concept. I've read into a lot of information on this, but the "80/20" thing never came up.

I suppose ultimately, its about spending 80% of your (working) time getting ready for that final 20% (when it actually counts)?
 

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sorry to resurrect but

20% of your activites counts for 80% of your results.

So this means if you focus on doing the top 20% of your tasks, you can have more results.... *and time

ie
TOP20% BOTTOM80% RESULT
More Approching Less Keyboard Jocky = More PUVssY
More Exercising Less Not Exercising = More Ripped
More Assignments Less TV = Better Grades
More Dancing,Conversation LESS PS2 = More skills

etc etc etc
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It applies to most thing in life, not just sales.

In fact it applies to other facets of sales too...

20% of your salesman bring in 80% of the business.

Can u think of any more?
 
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