"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the 7 questions game

Apocalypto

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This is a powerful attraction gambit which provides an in depth cold read material based on the answer to seven targeted questions. Here is a run through of the logic behind the questions:

• 1st question: how much do you need to be in contact with people?

This identifies wether the person is introverted or extraverted

• 2nd question: Do you enjoy soap operas?

This is to establish wether the person is emotional or rational. People who enjoy soap operas are emotional because they do not need finality in their viewing experience, as such the story is not as important as the emotions experienced. People who are rational have a hard time with anything that doesn’t have a beginning and an end.

• 3rd question: Do you consider yourself a skeptical?

This identifies wether a person has internal or external frame of reference. It also assesses how much it takes to make that person change her mind.

• 4th question: Do you make lists?

This establishes what kind of organizational framework the person is comfortable with. Some people need a formal structure and are incapable of dealing with the unexpected, other people dislike any kind of planning and are more effective at improvising and adapting dynamically.

• How much do you need a leader?

This assesses a person’s directive potential. Usually gurls will not have a strong urge to lead because they are genetically programmed to be dominated. Therefore if you use the test classify the gurl accordingly regardless of what she answers.

• Do you like Science Fiction?

This identifies wether a person is unidimensional (not able to relate to concepts which are not anchored to reality) or multidimensional (able to conceptualize alternate realities, and able to “see the big picture”). Gurls are usually unidimensional.

• Are these 2 images similar or different?

This question is designed to find out if a person is critical in their outlook. People who point out differences require a very different communication style than those who identify similarities.


I use an app called Identities on my Iphone to compile the results. I ask a gurl if she wants to play “the 7 questions game”. I tell her that based on her answers to just seven questions I can teach her a lot about herself. I do the profile on her, then I save it for future reference cos its gonna guide how I communicate with her in the future. I go for automatic email close, the app has a feature whereas you can email the profile so I have her type in her email address, works every time. Not only did I get her email, I spiked her BT by feeding her chick crack, I have a roadmap to improve rapport in all my future communications with her, and I found a great opportunity to transition to comfort by talking about her personality.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yo dude, i know you are only trying to help, but move the fvck away from these routines/gambits/ass1icking sh1t.

This doesn't work. Interview style doesn't work. This is weird, im freaked out just by reading it.

If you are 1% open minded, learn from RSD and some of the Player Supreme stuff. Also, do loads of field work. If you were sarging in real life and using these techniques, you would know they don't work.

You, and everyone else out there, i have a message for you. If you are not going regularly out and sarging, reading theory will fvck you up. So if you don't have the balls to go out and approach girls, stop reading the community material and be normal. This is only making you weirder, and you are pretty weird by now.
 

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See I tried to do RSD but I couldn't find the switch to activate my Nimbus.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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