"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The 52 Nonverbal Flirting Signals of Women

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1. Smile
2. Glance (wide)
3. Solitary dance
4. Laugh
5. Glance (short darting)
6. Hair flip
7. Lean
8. Glance (gaze/fixated)
9. Head toss
10. Head nod
11. Point/permission grant
12. Gesticulation
13. Giggle
14. Whisper
15. Dance (acceptance)
16. Neck presentation
17. Object caress
18. Lick lip
19. Primp
20. Parade
21. Aid solicitation
22. Caress (leg)
23 Play
24. Brush
25. Pout
26. Knee touch
27. Shoulder hug
28. Thigh touch
29. Caress (arm)
30. Hand hold
31. Coy smile
32. Placement
33. Approach
34. Palm
35. Caress (back)
36. Foot to foot
37. Request dance
38. Hug
39. Arm flexion
40. Face to face
41. Tap
42. Caress (torso)
43. Buttock pat
44. Frontal body contact
45. Breast touch
46. Kiss
47. Caress (face/hair)
48. Eyebrow flash
49. Hike skirt
50. Hang
51. Lipstick application
52. Lateral body contact
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Could've done with a LOT more detail, I don't know what you mean by half of these.

I mean what the hell is a "hang" and "hike skirt"?
 
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Could've done with a LOT more detail, I don't know what you mean by half of these.

I mean what the hell is a "hang" and "hike skirt"?
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I dont know bro. I saw a special on the history channel then decided to look it up online.
 
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This is a pretty good, scientific list. I've had certain ones done to me. Others are vague and could use some explanation though. Some of these you have to look hard and long to spot.

One that may confuse people, towards the top, is the 'solitary dance'. I was at a bar one night bustin out some karoke for fun, it was early and the bar was pretty empty, and a chick came out on the floor in front of the stage and started dancing all seductive by herself. My (now wife) then finace and her friend came running out a minute later to dance. It was obvious they were on guard agaisnt this girl flirting with me.

They later confirmed that was what was happening.

The coy smile with a slight blush is always a great one to get. Makes you feel like you could grab her hand and lead her back to your place right then.
 
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