"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The 3 "T's" in Male Physical Attraction

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Thought I would throw this one out as I haven't read it yet here.

Good friend of mine who has studied the red pill told me this in the beginning of my new chapter of adult dating:

1) Tan

2) Teeth (white/straight)

3) Tone

Now I'm sure some of you may say no shyt, but it's been a helpful reminder to myself and it does work.

He would say "you wanna see tits? Then you need to incorporate the 3 T's my friend"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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1) Tan

2) Teeth (white/straight)

3) Tone
I was so sure one of them would be testosterone! As in, ditch soy and lift weights. Increases muscle mass and testosterone levels, makes the face look more masculine, improves the overall impression of a man. Also improves health.
 

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I thought it would be tall, testosterone, Tesla!

How do you tan if you're Black? Teeth, I definitely agree, I'm a sucker for a beautiful smile! Tone, I'd love to ditch my job and take lots of time to work out and become Tyrone Thunderkok.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Soo disappointed!!

Triple digit income

Two million $$ house

And she has two to three kids!

3 Ts perfect
 

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I was so sure one of them would be testosterone! As in, ditch soy and lift weights. Increases muscle mass and testosterone levels, makes the face look more masculine, improves the overall impression of a man. Also improves health.
Why are you afraid of soy?
 

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Why are you afraid of soy?
"afraid of" - what a bitchy question. You can read up on this yourself. Or you can deduce from my post that soy lowers testosterone level. Wasn't that clear?
 

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Except it doesn't. There isn't a link between plasma testosterone levels and amount of soy consumed that demonstrates consuming the latter reduces the former. This myth just won't die off.

Do you always get so defensive when people challenge what you think you know?

"afraid of" - what a bitchy question. You can read up on this yourself. Or you can deduce from my post that soy lowers testosterone level. Wasn't that clear?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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