you guys are getting at the right stuff but if this guy is for real it will take a long time for him to get to a point of understanding what these words mean.
Showing power to you is the equivelant of me saying something to you in Cantonese. You don't understand it because you're not used to it, you don't recognize it.
Work on inner game is important and it the most important part... not so you can explain it to someone else, but so you understand it. It took me a hell of a long time. The quickest way to learn something is to teach, nopride, imagine you were in a situation where you were trying to help a guy to be cool. Imagine you were someone else helping you out, what would you do? Find people in real life who are good at picking up woman and watch what they do. Monkey see monkey do. Make freinds with them.
There is one thing which is conspicuous by it's absence with you, and that is social proof. You stand no chance in a bar situation if you don't have it. You need to practice conversation with as many people as you can about a genuinely interesting topic. Something preferably interesting to the person you're talking to, not only you.
I actually know of a guy who is a 24 year old virgin and he's a bar manager. Just to see him there's not much of a problem with him, but after getting to know him he'd just act like a **** to me and shut me out socially, but when I saw him at the bar he'd be on first name terms with me and I just ended up thinking "You're a total ****. Serve me that drink and watch me kiss my girlfreind."
You need to be good to everyone because it ends up showing, people can pick up on tension and you don't need that holding you down. It seems like you have issues you need to resolve.
