Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The 1000lb club

Jitterbug

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I'm gunning for the 500kg club this year as it's all metric around here, but I'm very close to a 1000lbs total at 435kg ~ 957lbs. BW is 80kg or 176lbs.

Squat 155kg
Bench 95kg
Deadlift 185kg

My next 3 months training cycle I'm going for

Squat 170kg
Bench 105kg
Deadlift 200kg

Total 475kg ~ 1045 lbs, BW aiming for between 75kg and 80kg (let's say ~170lbs)

Lifts all done raw, no belt, no wrap, no strap.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fuglydude

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All lifts raw... 5'8" - 180 lbs.

All time 1 RMs:

Squat: 355
Bench: 245
Deads: 470

Ttl : 1070... 1200 would be nice!
 

Furyguy

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Thanks for the bump Drum.

I just barely got in last night.

340 Squat
240 Bench
425 Deadlift

All raw/barefoot as you said. Squat is down deep and bench touches the chest. 1,100 is the next milestone to shoot for, so you'll be hearing back from me when I make it there.
 

Drum&Bass

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Welcome to the club Fury, glad you could make it, make sure to keep track of your journey to 1,100 sir and share some things you learned to get there.

My next 3 months training cycle I'm going for

Squat 170kg
Bench 105kg
Deadlift 200kg

Total 475kg ~ 1045 lbs, BW aiming for between 75kg and 80kg (let's say ~170lbs)
so close Jitter !!!! you got 3 months ....and you better have your membership ready next time i check up on you.

:)
 

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I recently passed the 1500 raw barrier. (505 sq, 405 b, 600 d) Next is the 1600 club and top 50 @ 242!

Also upcoming is the 300 lb overhead press. About 20 lbs to go....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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morepoonplease

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Colossus said:
I recently passed the 1500 raw barrier. (505 sq, 405 b, 600 d) Next is the 1600 club and top 50 @ 242!

Also upcoming is the 300 lb overhead press. About 20 lbs to go....
jesus you must have a hard time finding clothes that fit... :p

my numbers:

Bench: 250
Squat: 310
Deadlift: 405
Total: 966lbs... about 34lbs to go, i'll get back to you on that :)

all raw @ 6' 4" 224lbs
 

JDiddy

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Colossus said:
Also upcoming is the 300 lb overhead press. About 20 lbs to go....
yeah, good club to be in

My deadlift last tested 6 weeks ago 490lb raw no belt
squat about 380
bench about 255

currently doing a cycle where in 7 weeks i should be
dead 530lb
squat 420lb
bench 285lb
all raw

bench has abit of catching up to do, i'd like to be in the raw 405lb (4 plate) bench club one day
 

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JDiddy said:
yeah, good club to be in

My deadlift last tested 6 weeks ago 490lb raw no belt
squat about 380
bench about 255

currently doing a cycle where in 7 weeks i should be
dead 530lb
squat 420lb
bench 285lb
all raw

bench has abit of catching up to do, i'd like to be in the raw 405lb (4 plate) bench club one day
Nice numbers! What are your height and weight like??
 

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5foot 10, bodyweight atm is 220lb, high bodyfat though, prolly around 22% but i dont care. i only care about getting the deadlift up to 6-7 plates and bulking right now
 

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JDiddy said:
5foot 10, bodyweight atm is 220lb, high bodyfat though, prolly around 22% but i dont care. i only care about getting the deadlift up to 6-7 plates and bulking right now
You're already a big boy w/ a great strength base. Nice place to be when shooting for a 6-700 lb deadlift!! Good luck! You should post a workout journal to keep track of your progress.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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