"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The 1 simple thing you can do to improve your confidence in life

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I can kill the average man, with my bare hands, in less than 2 seconds, after he puts up his guard. Kick to legs, down he goes. kick to base of skull or crush larnyx and he's dead. Might have to first kick top of head, kidney, between shoulder blades, etc, to set him up for the finishing stroke, depending upon how he lies after he has fallen.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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don't said:
I can kill the average man, with my bare hands, in less than 2 seconds, after he puts up his guard. Kick to legs, down he goes. kick to base of skull or crush larnyx and he's dead. Might have to first kick top of head, kidney, between shoulder blades, etc, to set him up for the finishing stroke, depending upon how he lies after he has fallen.
And an above average man will put you in your place which is on your sorry ass.
 

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don't said:
I can kill the average man, with my bare hands, in less than 2 seconds, after he puts up his guard. Kick to legs, down he goes. kick to base of skull or crush larnyx and he's dead. Might have to first kick top of head, kidney, between shoulder blades, etc, to set him up for the finishing stroke, depending upon how he lies after he has fallen.
I bet you say that to all the girls


In this area I can 100% honestly say I eat healthily and do a lot of excercise entirely for me and not for validation from other people.
 
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Not only is it a psychological boost by giving you euphoric confidence every time you see an improvement in yourself; But combined with basic appearance improvements it will make you much more attractive to women.

It doesnt matter about the difference between 6 foot at 170 pounds and 200 pounds, that is all personal taste. But being at a point where women regularly notice you and people compliment you on your physique will transform your mindset.

There is something very primal about size and strength in masculinity. You will become more attractive guaranteed.

And anyone that says it is not the holy grail needs to re-evaluate what they are looking for in life. Are you looking to bang 200 girls or are you looking to be satisfied?

Becoming more attractive is 1 key thing to becoming satisfied with girls. A guy called Pook wrote about life and girls a long time ago. What people neglect is that Pook improved himself visually, he wrote about the drastic changes you notice in the way people react to you when you get bigger and stronger.

Other key things include: Fame, Power, Having a face like David Gandy and Money. Everything else is just game and variables.
 

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the gym is an amazing place. When you lift you release endorphins which make you feel great. You feel good about yourself, high confidence levels, meet new people, women check you out, god i love that place
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Been working out on and off for 9 years.

Still can't cold approach, lol
 

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Working out does not directly boost your confidence. You can work out for years and still be a chump. Your physical change itself will not get you far, it's important how you percieve the effect of that change. You must understand that working out is not your ultimate goal. Your goal is to be muscular and fit in order to increase your attractivness and desire among females (unless you are a bodybuilder-professional).

You can't grow balls to approach to a woman, or to be a smooth and unresistable companionship in a gym. But you can increase your value which will lead you to love yourself more and put yourself and your time above others'. There's a difference between cold look muscles of stone male and a handsome charming fella.
 

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SMS 48 said:
Been working out on and off for 9 years.

Still can't cold approach, lol

^here is the RAW truth. Working out does wonders for your confidence and makes getting laid much EASIER, however, if you cannot approach or are still shy or w/e you're still gonna be beating your meat.
 

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don't said:
I can kill the average man, with my bare hands, in less than 2 seconds, after he puts up his guard. Kick to legs, down he goes. kick to base of skull or crush larnyx and he's dead. Might have to first kick top of head, kidney, between shoulder blades, etc, to set him up for the finishing stroke, depending upon how he lies after he has fallen.

I can carve a fork out of a 2x4x8 in .08 seconds. What point are you bringing to this conversation?

The thread is about working out increasing your confidence level and appearance and thus helping you with meeting women. So what the **** are you talking about?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i've started exercising, working out again but i need to do it more consistently, i've been doing cardio work out, as in running, jogging through my neighborhood and park, and going on the exercise bike i have at home, but i need to develop the motivation, relentlessness to do it everyday though, i've only been doing it like 2 or 3 times a week now.
 
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