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THE #1 RULE for dealing with women (the easy way to deal with chicks)

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I will keep this short and as brief as possible.

Everyday, millions and probably billions of men everywhere rack their brains trying to figure out the biggest mystery in existence.

A WOMAN's MIND!!!!!

Hey, God created them and even he probably gets headaches trying to figure them out sometimes.

This is what goes on in the average guys head:

"Should I do this or should I do that and what if I do that and then she doesn't like me or maybe I should do this but then again.............

DAMN!!!!

That made my head hurt just to write that.

Let me share a simple rule that has served me well over the years.

First, I assume that most of you know that women are not logical creatures but rather emotional ones.

"Yes, that is common knowledge", I can hear some people saying.

The point is that few men know how to use this common knowledge in their everyday dealings with women.

The problem is that although we as men are aware that women are not logical but emotional, we still have a tendency to act as though what makes sense to us will also be seen by a woman the same way we see it.

To give an example: It is logical to think that giving someone something nice would make them feel better about us and maybe even make them want to treat us better.

In the real world, with women it doesn't work this way. Buying gifts and doing favors will not cause a woman to fall in love with you.

The truth is, women are attracted to guys who make them earn their time, affection, and anything else they want from them.

Another example: Just be nice, try to help her with her problems, walk her dog, etc. and she should see you as a great guy.

In the real world, women are often attracted to guys who treat them like sh*t or put their own needs ahead of the woman's.

Do you see my point?

Trying to think logically when dealing with a woman is a losing situation. Yet this is what most guys do and then they complain that can't figure this women out and what do they want and yadi, yadi, yadi, yadi, etc.

Stop driving yourself crazy. Do I completely understand women? Hell no!!

I understand enough to keep my game tight but no one really completely understands these complex and mentally f*cked up creatures.

Just do what I do: When you have to decide what to do concerning a woman, first think of what would be the most logical thing to YOU.

Then do the OPPOSITE.

About 99% you will find that you did the right thing even if it made absolutely no sense to you or any of your male friends.

Do this and you will save time and alot of money on headache medicine. I'm out.

"The strong rule the weak but the wise rule the strong."
 

OzyBoy

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I would say just don't overthink about things. Do what you think is right for yourself not something you think they might want you to do because how do you know you can't read peoples minds.
 

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Tips Section.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I say that the #1 rule for dealing with women is to be a man.

Simple as that.
 

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Is this guy David Deangelo

Well... women aren't logical... when you think of something that you think might actually work.... turn it over and shake it... that might work... women aren't logical creatures, and to them... they'll feel atracted to someone who makes them feel.... not the one who treats them nice.... OK
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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