"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The #1 reason women reject you.

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Because they don't find you attractive.

It could be due to you dressing like a slob.

Not being groomed.

Being out of shape and overweight.

Being too short.

Being socially awkward.

All of which can be resolved by you. Be the change you want to see in life. It starts with you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You might draw some flak from some here on the forum, but I actually agree with you. Women spend their entire lives working on their appearance, and most men spend virtually zero time. We're lucky we even have pants on when we walk out the door.

All they need to see is a tiny bit of effort. That's all it takes to rise above average.
 
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I like that you put the emphasis on "men".

Too many men cry and whine about how women are "unfair" and "selfish". Men really control their own fate in the dating world. The successful ones know this.
 
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TheException said:
I like that you put the emphasis on "men".

Too many men cry and whine about how women are "unfair" and "selfish". Men really control their own fate in the dating world. The successful ones know this.
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except for you man. Your the exception. Thats why you let your girl hang out with dudes alone.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Because they don't find you attractive.

Agreed this is the number one reason. But the rest is really academic; more about being a fully-functioning human being than an attractive man.

Women will find you attractive, or they won't. To those that don't we say, 'meh' and move on. I used to struggle when chicks didn't wanna be with me because I enjoyed a lot of success in my formative years and I couldn't understand why that changed.

I figured it was my attitude. And I was right.

NB. Height is not something that is easily controlled.
 
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