If you're not scoring, chances are it's likely more a matter of demographics than personal ability.
Circa 1999 there was a national shortage of women. Back then (15 years ago now) there were 6 single men for every woman of childbearing age (who was never married/no children). This wouldn't change until women born between 1988-1992 reached adulthood. Back then, I felt that men were by and large mistreated by women (it peaked around 2003 when Matthew Fitzgerald published Sexploytation). Cougars, home equity loans and Sex and the City were all the rage. These women tended to want to date all 6 of their options, and in the process perverted the concept of dating itself to "hang out, hook up culture". This web site was borne out of that sad trend.
Now that these younger women have indeed matured (the older ones never did), at least in Austin, I'm observing the exact opposite in the dating scenario. Scores of gorgeous women around age 25 are not only single and lonely, but being totally mistreated. If you make them dinner they'll say "Why are you being so good to me? Nobody is ever good to me!" They act like a beaten dog in a way, which is not a good thing. None can keep their men from cheating on them. Most of them work 6 days and are supporting stay at home boyfriends who treat them like their b*tch (literally) and somehow get away with it. The men are also used to being submissive in the bedroom (I personally hate when women try to dominate). Few of these women understand what intimacy even is. Most have done anal and a huge percentage have STD's. Some gorgeous, blonde-haired, blue eyed women use needles so watch out. Their only idea of sex is from a porno. Even worse, their men have zero ambition and (while times are tougher for them) are not willing to work proportionally harder. Thus, they are not providing their women with anywhere near the fantasies that TV programmed them with in their childhood. If you are a DJ (with a job) now you can now rule.
Thus, I am revising my somewhat harsh feelings toward women and realizing that it's more human nature to exploit whatever resources are available. Gentlemen, make your hay while the sun still shines. Women posing as men here, I feel your pain. This is however another reason why an older man and younger women can greatly appreciate one another these days.
Circa 1999 there was a national shortage of women. Back then (15 years ago now) there were 6 single men for every woman of childbearing age (who was never married/no children). This wouldn't change until women born between 1988-1992 reached adulthood. Back then, I felt that men were by and large mistreated by women (it peaked around 2003 when Matthew Fitzgerald published Sexploytation). Cougars, home equity loans and Sex and the City were all the rage. These women tended to want to date all 6 of their options, and in the process perverted the concept of dating itself to "hang out, hook up culture". This web site was borne out of that sad trend.
Now that these younger women have indeed matured (the older ones never did), at least in Austin, I'm observing the exact opposite in the dating scenario. Scores of gorgeous women around age 25 are not only single and lonely, but being totally mistreated. If you make them dinner they'll say "Why are you being so good to me? Nobody is ever good to me!" They act like a beaten dog in a way, which is not a good thing. None can keep their men from cheating on them. Most of them work 6 days and are supporting stay at home boyfriends who treat them like their b*tch (literally) and somehow get away with it. The men are also used to being submissive in the bedroom (I personally hate when women try to dominate). Few of these women understand what intimacy even is. Most have done anal and a huge percentage have STD's. Some gorgeous, blonde-haired, blue eyed women use needles so watch out. Their only idea of sex is from a porno. Even worse, their men have zero ambition and (while times are tougher for them) are not willing to work proportionally harder. Thus, they are not providing their women with anywhere near the fantasies that TV programmed them with in their childhood. If you are a DJ (with a job) now you can now rule.
Thus, I am revising my somewhat harsh feelings toward women and realizing that it's more human nature to exploit whatever resources are available. Gentlemen, make your hay while the sun still shines. Women posing as men here, I feel your pain. This is however another reason why an older man and younger women can greatly appreciate one another these days.
