So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Just the other day I had this realization about the 'stink' of desperation, you know that thing that we claim women can smell from a mile away.
I was sitting at my computer the other night, and it ended up that I was chatting with four different girls on MSN that ALL want a piece of me. Now, ALL FOUR of these women are telling me how great I am, how they like me and want to be with me, etc, etc, etc.
Really though, there are only two of them that I actually have a bit of interest in myself... and they were the ones that were still able to maintain a conversation without being so overt about their feelings.
The thing is, I was chatting with each of these girls (and went on dates with a couple of them) individually, but this night was different... I was seriously getting sick of two of them to the point where I just blocked them because they just want me too much.
That got me thinking though, "Is this what I was doing to all those girls when I was AFC??"... I mean, I was feeling a sense of DISGUST at the attempts of these women to get me into bed, a COMPLETE turn-OFF.
The third girl started getting like that, and since I actually like this girl, I changed the subject to something more mundane so that she wouldn't start giving me those same feelings. I can't believe it... I've actually started to catch the smell of desperation.
The reason why most guys don't smell it, is because they reek so much of the stuff that their noses become immune to the smell... it just doesn't register anymore. If only I could give you guys a sense of what it's like, you would start to understand what you are really doing to a woman that you desperately want to be with.
It's not a good feeling to be reduced to a piece of meat (although, it's fun to play with for a little while, untill the ego boost wears off), so why are you going to do that to the women that you are attempting to seduce?
I was sitting at my computer the other night, and it ended up that I was chatting with four different girls on MSN that ALL want a piece of me. Now, ALL FOUR of these women are telling me how great I am, how they like me and want to be with me, etc, etc, etc.
Really though, there are only two of them that I actually have a bit of interest in myself... and they were the ones that were still able to maintain a conversation without being so overt about their feelings.
The thing is, I was chatting with each of these girls (and went on dates with a couple of them) individually, but this night was different... I was seriously getting sick of two of them to the point where I just blocked them because they just want me too much.
That got me thinking though, "Is this what I was doing to all those girls when I was AFC??"... I mean, I was feeling a sense of DISGUST at the attempts of these women to get me into bed, a COMPLETE turn-OFF.
The third girl started getting like that, and since I actually like this girl, I changed the subject to something more mundane so that she wouldn't start giving me those same feelings. I can't believe it... I've actually started to catch the smell of desperation.
The reason why most guys don't smell it, is because they reek so much of the stuff that their noses become immune to the smell... it just doesn't register anymore. If only I could give you guys a sense of what it's like, you would start to understand what you are really doing to a woman that you desperately want to be with.
It's not a good feeling to be reduced to a piece of meat (although, it's fun to play with for a little while, untill the ego boost wears off), so why are you going to do that to the women that you are attempting to seduce?
