"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's it, it is time to change!

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I don't know what it is, but somehow seeing Marissa again and sitting with 2 girls during chemistry, has inspired me to change. I'm tired of being Mike, guy who lots of people know and talk to, but doesn't really have any friends. I'm also tired of not having the guts to approach girls I like. Mr. Confidence is the guy I want to become, the guy who has many friends, a social life, and has the guts to approach girls that he likes. Put more simply, the Mr. Confidence I want to become is a Don Juan. Right now, I do a lot of activities, and I have a few friends, but I'm still the guy who sits alone at lunch(Well I could sit with my other friends, but they're not that social either). Most people either see me as the quiet guy, or just plain have no idea who I am. So I'm going to change, and I won't make another post on this forum until I've actually started making progress. Things I plan to accomplish are:
- Becoming more comfortable with approaching women.
- Becoming more social.
- Get some actual p*ssy and stop fantasizing.
- Becoming more confident with myself.

Yeah, it'll be hard, but it's about time I let go of my AFC ways. I know many of you don't believe I'll do anything, that's fair, I've given you reasons to believe that, but I've got a feeling this time is going to be different.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LOLOLOL that other thread JUST got locked.
 
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keep a log to detail your progress
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Sounds like a good plan. Tonight I'm thinking about who I could approach tomorrow and tomorrow I'll actually approach someone. Perhaps even Marissa, she's wasting her time with all those other guys. Should of got her when I had the chance, but hey, she hasn't left yet, the fact we no longer have band together just means I have to try harder.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MrConfidence said:
Sounds like a good plan. Tonight I'm thinking about who I could approach tomorrow and tomorrow I'll actually approach someone. Perhaps even Marissa, she's wasting her time with all those other guys. Should of got her when I had the chance, but hey, she hasn't left yet, the fact we no longer have band together just means I have to try harder.
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Omg i don't even know why I'm wasting my time writing this but i feel compelled to help you...

Don't "think" about who your going to approach now, make it an impulse and "act" on it. That's what distinguishes the average AFC from the DJ, actions.
 
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Omg i don't even know why I'm wasting my time writing this but i feel compelled to help you...

Don't "think" about who your going to approach now, make it an impulse and "act" on it. That's what distinguishes the average AFC from the DJ, actions.
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Oh man, I don't want to start arguing again. You can't make it impulse when the same girls sit in the same places everyday. My schools small enough that I can safely say I've seen almost every girl once. Still, if I was sarging elsewhere, that advice works very well, but YES, I am taking your advice, just for not school approaches. Still, I seriously want to see if I have a chance at banging Marissa, if she rejects me, so what? No sweat off my back. If I get the fanboys(AKA her "male" friends) away from her, approaching should be simple. From there, what happens happens.
 
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Oh man, I don't want to start arguing again. You can't make it impulse when the same girls sit in the same places everyday. My schools small enough that I can safely say I've seen almost every girl once. Still, if I was sarging elsewhere, that advice works very well, but YES, I am taking your advice, just for not school approaches. BTW, is it WRONG to have oneitis for a chick that's hotter than most chicks in the school(Marissa)? I seriously want to see if I have a chance to bang this chick, those other guys she sits with are just friends, obviously not doing something right.
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Ok I don't want to either, I'm just saying you can approach at more places than just lunch, how about just talk to some girls walking through the hall? Impulsive so you have no time to get nervous (3 second rule) and it will make you fell good for a while too.

No, it's not wrong to have oneitis, it's just stupid. By having oneitis your pretty much eliminating any other oppurtunities and giving the girl control.

I expect to see some results up tomorrow!
 
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Oh BOY, I wonder what we will be hearing 2 days from now..

What are you thinking up this time, "Mike"? She was sitting with friends? You didn't know what to say? There was no room at the table? I can't wait!
 
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What are you thinking up this time, "Mike"? She was sitting with friends? You didn't know what to say? There was no room at the table? I can't wait!
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Speaking of that, how would you go about approaching a girl when there are a bunch of senior guys sitting there?

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Ok I don't want to either, I'm just saying you can approach at more places than just lunch, how about just talk to some girls walking through the hall? Impulsive so you have no time to get nervous (3 second rule) and it will make you fell good for a while too.

No, it's not wrong to have oneitis, it's just stupid. By having oneitis your pretty much eliminating any other oppurtunities and giving the girl control.

I expect to see some results up tomorrow!
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Alright hall sounds good too, excuses aside.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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step 1)take your shoe strings
step 2)tie shoe string together
step 3)make a noose and put around neck
step 4)jump.
 
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guys(seniors or otherwise) and UGs... are just UGs. talk to them a little and make them your friends(tell stories and get them to like u) and they'll think ur so cool that they won't care ur going for marissa and they might even convince her to go with u. ;).
 
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Looks like change isn't happening yet. Didn't get any approaches in this morning, and I already know I'm not going to do crap at lunch. WAs going to say hi to this Ashley girl, but she was going a bit fast for me. Maybe something will happen after Spring Break.
 
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Actually contrary to what I thought was going to happen, I actually did get MINOR success. Didn't approach anyone, weren't any oppurtunities, but I did say "Hey" to this girl, and she actually smiled and said "Hey" back. Yeah, I know I'm just going to get banned again, but just wanted to say that I'm getting success. Banned or not, when school starts back up again after Spring Break, I see good things happening.
 
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Why did you get banned!?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why did you get banned!?
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Many reasons. However, in my most recent post I DID start to change, and I am continuing to change. I have started taking advice, and I have started to not use excuses. Plus, I don't know why, but after that hot girl not only said "Hey" to me, but smiled at me, that gave me a major confidence boost. Nonetheless, I am improving, but if you got to ban me, you gotta ban me. Won't affect my improving.
 
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ban his ip not just his name, come on mods.
 
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