"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That Twist in your guts, analyze it for me.

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I've been posting stuff quite a while.

Yep, I have burned and crashed and pain is deep, but still, I cannot forfeit

b/c I am strong baby! So look, I was thinking about my flaws with women

and couldn't really get it. But then as usual, I walk outside towards class,

meet 2 pretty cute chicks on elevator. This setting is EASY for a conversation

so I don't miss it. Then my head and mind goes blank, get the twitch in the

brain and stomach, and feels weird oooozy feeling in the head. I think we can

call this nervous? I enter class, sit by a hot chick, and there I open convo

with her, saying this/that, and playfully kinoing her and she likes it. But

as I am talking, I get the same feeling. Ideas such as being sexual and etc

didn't come to mind very well b/c I was not genuinely comfortable.

When I am comfortable w/ a chick, I am a firing dildo, and most of times

I don't feel comfortable and feel those weird feelings I described above.

Please tell me what this is and please give me solutions and in-sights.

I want to feel comfortable around ladies!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brilliant posts! Thanks Phat Rabbit, I will shoot you some PM if I have further questions. Others, feel free to teach me more.
 

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good post phat rabbit looked into some of your links and their solid. BTW are you familiar with real social dynamics the blueprint decoded they also give similar advice.
 
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