"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

That Twist in your guts, analyze it for me.

moneyisking

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2009
Messages
626
Reaction score
11
I've been posting stuff quite a while.

Yep, I have burned and crashed and pain is deep, but still, I cannot forfeit

b/c I am strong baby! So look, I was thinking about my flaws with women

and couldn't really get it. But then as usual, I walk outside towards class,

meet 2 pretty cute chicks on elevator. This setting is EASY for a conversation

so I don't miss it. Then my head and mind goes blank, get the twitch in the

brain and stomach, and feels weird oooozy feeling in the head. I think we can

call this nervous? I enter class, sit by a hot chick, and there I open convo

with her, saying this/that, and playfully kinoing her and she likes it. But

as I am talking, I get the same feeling. Ideas such as being sexual and etc

didn't come to mind very well b/c I was not genuinely comfortable.

When I am comfortable w/ a chick, I am a firing dildo, and most of times

I don't feel comfortable and feel those weird feelings I described above.

Please tell me what this is and please give me solutions and in-sights.

I want to feel comfortable around ladies!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

moneyisking

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2009
Messages
626
Reaction score
11
Brilliant posts! Thanks Phat Rabbit, I will shoot you some PM if I have further questions. Others, feel free to teach me more.
 

1337

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 17, 2009
Messages
153
Reaction score
7
good post phat rabbit looked into some of your links and their solid. BTW are you familiar with real social dynamics the blueprint decoded they also give similar advice.
 
Top