"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That Term ****blocker

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I have heard the term ****blocker but never really understood the definition so maybe someone here can help me with this problem that I might be experiencing a ****blocker.

I have been wanting to ask this younger lady out she is around 28 she works in a supermarket in the bakery. I sware every freakin' time I enter that store thls middle age woman who has been giving me the eye for the pass year heads to that area and totally interfers with my opportunity to talk with this younger gal and really pisses me off.

Is this lady a ****blocker?

I guess this woman thinks just because I am around her age I would be more interested in her instead of the younger one but here's the thing if she was fit and hot her age wouldn't matter to me but I just don't feel it with her.

How the hell to you get rid of this nat without hurting her feelings or should I even care?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I was at a bar a couple of days ago, standing next* to this older woman with a damn nice rack. She kept backing into me every once in a while, but I didn't say anything to her, cuz frankly, she looked pretty damn old. Hot tits, but old, and its not like she was hot or anything.

So anyway, at some point, I bumped into her by accident and she made a huge fuzz about it, like I was trying to feel her up or something. I just gave her a weird look and shrugged it off. Then her friend, who was across her table (who was much younger, had a nice rack as well, and was 5 times cuter) introduced herself to me. The music was loud, so we had to speak into each other's ears, cheek-to-cheek. Not long after that, fuzzy cougar b*tch jumps in, making a fuzz one more time, this time about me talking to her friend. They left after that (I'm guessing that dumb b*tch was drunk) and I didn't get her number.

THAT is a ****block.

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Whats there to approve I am trying to talk with this lady of coarse she is at her work in the barkery part am I missing something?

It is a supermarket and during the day I am thinking I will have to make out like I am wanting to order a cake or some doughnuts or something and just let it flow ignoring the ****blocker if it is possible as she is always pulling her away when I approach the area which really pisses me off.

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Cool story bro, but in my humble opinion you shouldn't hit on women where they work. They just want to earn their salary, avoid getting fired, and go home. Couple that with the fact that attractive women in customer-service jobs are hit on ALL THE TIME means that it's just a sad way to try to meet women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The best way to deal with a ****block is to acknowledge him/her and then proceed with the interaction as if that person doesn't exist. So with this woman, say hello to her and be friendly but then turn your attention over to the target. The ****block will start to feel awkward and eventually piss off.
 

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I will have to remember your quote Zarky 'attractive women in customer-service jobs are hit on ALL THE TIME means that it's just a sad way to try to meet women'.

I have properly met some of the best women at their work with no problems and were glad I approached only this time this is my first ****blocker experience which has posed a problem the reason for my question not that I should avoid women at their work.

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Zarky said:
Cool story bro, but in my humble opinion you shouldn't hit on women where they work. They just want to earn their salary, avoid getting fired, and go home. Couple that with the fact that attractive women in customer-service jobs are hit on ALL THE TIME means that it's just a sad way to try to meet women.
 

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Thanks Lexington, I must have missed your post but I like it and will do it the next time I am in there.

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Lexington said:
The best way to deal with a ****block is to acknowledge him/her and then proceed with the interaction as if that person doesn't exist. So with this woman, say hello to her and be friendly but then turn your attention over to the target. The ****block will start to feel awkward and eventually piss off.
 
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