"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That "Gut Feeling"

MMA Juan

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I've read a few posts on here over the last few days that have talked about trusting 'your gut feeling'- This is 100% fvckin correct...

Remember you're going to come across different situations, where there's gonna be reasoning and discussion with different variables, but you have to think back to what your gut feeling was at the time. If you get the feeling that something isn't right, then guess what-that's your sub conscious mind tellin you somethin aint right. If some date flakes on you and comes up with an excuse, but your 'gut feeling' says nuh that was bvll****, then guess what- it probably was.

How to handle these situations- easy, move forward, and listen to that gut feeling more often. When your sub conscious (six sense, whatever you wanna call it) says somethin aint right, then listen to it, it'll probably be the best advise you will get.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KontrollerX

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Definitely.

I promote this sense everywhere on the board whenever I get the chance as everytime I did not listen to my gut instinct I got screwed over badly.

Its like a deep animal instinct within us warning us of danger be it impending or stuff to avoid.

It tells you whether a person or situation is good, bad, trustworthy or not trustworthy, has integrity or not or has truly changed or not, etc.

Probably a part of our ancient fight or flight instinct but I'm not totally sure on that.
 

Thatfeel21

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i hear ya'll on that...it esp works when youre trying to gauge a girls general interest level...if your gut says stop wasting your time, then go with it...
 

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I agree. People think too much about things sometimes but your gut feeling tells you what you don't want to hear.
 
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