"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That GREAT feeling!!!!!!

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Its just that amazing feeling isnt it guys?

That feeling when you know you are not an AFC anymore, that feeling that you get when you go out there and socialize and get phone numbers and get contacts and networking.

Contrast that feeling of EUPHORIA with the feeling of lonley, pathetic AFC....and that is just amazing.

I bet after a long night of sarging or networking you come home, sit on your sofa and you just feel like you can do anything on earth. You walk around with great energy knowing you are starting to improve your life!

The feeling of invincibility!!!!!!!!!

I am soooo HAPPYYYYYYYY ARRHGHHH!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hmmm

Currently 81 replies in another "do looks matter" and NOT ONE yet in a post about not being an AFC anymore.

Anyway, good on ya mate! 'Tis a grand feeling indeed!

JJ
 

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I agree. I can recall when I got home from an amazing night of SUCCESS, gazing at the stares at home, killin' another drink with a grin that wouldn't leave my face untill I fell into a deep sleep later :D

NOTHING. NOTHING SUCCEEDS LIKE SUCCESS :up:
 
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Holland said:
I agree. I can recall when I got home from an amazing night of SUCCESS, gazing at the stares at home, killin' another drink with a grin that wouldn't leave my face untill I fell into a deep sleep later :D

NOTHING. NOTHING SUCCEEDS LIKE SUCCESS :up:
Agreed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hahaha!

Especially that feeling when you get the girls phone number and then you walk away with that feeling that you can do anything in the world.

Its such a buzz, I swear to god that feeling is better than Heroin (I never took it but I heard i felt nice :p)
 

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dammit, i dont know how u guys do it. When i get numbers i dont have any rewarding feeling at all. Its like, okay i got the number so what? Damn, i wish i could get a high too.
 

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For me it all depends on the quality of the women whos numbers I get. If theyre all stupid A55 chicks they don't give me a buzz ! The chick with a brain rox.
 

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Ratisson said:
dammit, i dont know how u guys do it. When i get numbers i dont have any rewarding feeling at all. Its like, okay i got the number so what? Damn, i wish i could get a high too.
Same for me...
 

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best feeling ever. i feel invincible. and its never gonna go away.

it took a long while... some pain.... sometimes out of my comfort zone... some frustration. but look where i am in the end. I got 24 new phone numbers in a month... 2 of girls ive always had my eye on but never had the balls to talk to really or flirt with. now im jugglin 3 girls at once and can handle it like a pro. hooked up with 2 girls in the past 3 weeks. one was one of those hot ones I've always had my eye on but had NEVER talked to even once for all of high school. im destroying kids in track. i go out all the time. Yes, it's a good feeling indeed.

So this is how I started... I had only one really good friend i chilled with. once in a while we would go out to parties or whatever... but not that much. He got a girlfriend and basically I was left with doing nothing. I was left wallowing and bored for a while (boredom is bad). this period of not doing anything or meeting people was particularly bad. I started trying to get invited to places like parties and stuff, and eventually it worked, a lot of try and fail etc cause I wasn't great friends with anyone. Asked a girl to prom etc. So I got some networking going. There was another kid that didn't go out ever either who I was friends with but we never hung out much. only if we were bored with nothing to do on weekends.

So this other kid was tall but really skinny. He was never respected or anything. Basically a goofball. Anyway, over the past year, he gained about 50 pounds. Now he's huge... most people think the most 'jacked' kid in the school. He got a girlfriend. I started lifting a lot too. I gained about 15 pounds but it's hard cause I'm a runner. So we used to chill and do nothing, now more and more people come every weekend to his parties. It started out as his girlfriend and some of her friends. Then it kinda escalated. It's awesome. We're now the kids to hang out with and everyone's callin him and me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You know, this is a pretty ****ing inspirational thread. I really need to get my ****ing head into the DJ mindset and start making things happen cause I've been real real ****ty lately :trouble:
 

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Ratisson said:
dammit, i dont know how u guys do it. When i get numbers i dont have any rewarding feeling at all. Its like, okay i got the number so what? Damn, i wish i could get a high too.
that's because you are not loving it enough. Get excited before you approach by thinking about going home that night with them ect.
 
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