"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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THat girl

oscarxp25

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My friend after high school took a big chance and moved to florida to open up a night club with his friends. In high school he was a big AFC, especially to this one girl named Amy. Amy to me was average but to him, she was the prize, that girl he never had in highschool. Anyway, down in Florida over the 5 years he was down there, he took control of his life and began nailing 8-10's. I visited him one weekend and the girls he was banging were amazingly hot. Last week he came back to NY, we went out to clubs, he used his new attitude on the NY girls and it worked like a charm. On the train back to long island, we see Amy. Who I must say got better looking, but still was average to me compared to what I saw him bang down south. He got all nervous, he went back to his old AFC, he tried covering up. We got to my car after the train ride, he was drunk and got all quiet. He then said something in a very serious manner. to me which was.

"Dude, I know you saw me with all those girls down in Florida but let me tell you something, none of them have made me feel what Amy did. Amy is just the most amazing girl I have ever met. I am not saying nailing those girls is not fun but I would trade any of those girls for Amy."

What is it about that one girl we never got, even after we become DJ's? I jsut wanted a universal opinion about it.

thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Krang!

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My guess - the fact he never got her...
 
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