"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That feeling...

uzio

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I attend a german language course. The good thing about it - the male:female ration is very good there... i mean very, very good. 2 males per 14 females ^^

Anyhoo - I've been casually flirting with a few girls there for some weeks now, no real plans to bed any of them, but, you know, it is a good practice ^^

Yesterday, during the class, I'm, as usual :p, arguing with the lector. I get this thought "Maybe after all I should game one of these chicks? But which one?" At the same time i catch no more no less then 4 girls looking at me, winking and doing all that seductive stuff.

Like it was some damn mind control :eek:

Anyhoo - I took the digits of one of the girls and walked away with that feeling when of being in control...

Sometimes I simply love being a male...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by uzio

Sometimes I simply love being a male...
But sometimes at night, you wish so much you were a female, you dress up, put your make up on, and go whoring to get a pervert to **** you.

No offense man haha. :D

Oh.. on the topic... congratulations!
 

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I know exactly what you mean! It's like when you first discovered cheat codes while playing video games. What was once a menacing dungeon is suddenly a joke, and there are hundreds of knife-wielding demons waiting to be splattered.

The only difference is, DOOM with cheat codes got boring pretty fast, whereas there will always be a woman out there that can challenge you.
 
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