"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just a quick idea I had that I thought I'd share with everyone to benefit the DJ society here. Everyone knows that awkward moment you have when you come to the end of a first date with a girl (or guy?...). You go for a hug and want to kiss her but don't know how to articulate it, if only there was a simple line you could say that would subtly yet effectivly get your desire across. Well I've come up with just that, when that moment comes at the end of the date just say "So do I get a first date kiss?". Putting her on the spot like this will almost garuantee a kiss, its worked flawlessly the 3 times i've used it and I'll be using it in the future.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BPH said:
I'm surprised people feel like they need to say something to get a kiss...

I just look her in the eye and go in for the damn thing, usually followed by a goodbye of some sort. Kissing is easy if you don't think about it.
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Exactly mate, this is one of those things you just don't have to ask, just DO it! Forget asking for permission, that makes you look like a wuss, OP, thats weak sauce dude.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Very true, most of the time I just go in for the kiss aswell however every date is different, you have to act in accordance with the circumstances you're in. Obviously you don't need to say this everytime, everydate and many times just going in for the kiss is a much better move. However many times your in a situation with a girl where just going for it may not by the best tactical decision, in which case I use that line. I find that in some cases (NDJ and Jack Wealthy's for example) it is better to use a line to pre-empt the kiss, it certainly worked for them. Also when "asking" (as Jack Wealthy said) you shouldn't really be asking at all, you should have that confidence about you where your tone and body language have already decided that your going to kiss her.
 
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