"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanksgiving

InsidiousNstinct

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Well as you all know Thanksgiving is coming up, or as I like to call it, TURKEY DAY!!!

The object of this post is for all of you to reply and tell what you're most thankful for around this time of year. Anything that really means something. Yeah it sounds a little cliche but I believe it would do a lot of us some good. After you post, hopefully they will be enough replies that when Turkey day gets here we can all look over it and see whatever one is thankful for.

I guess I'll start us off....

I am thankful for...

*My family*
*A house to live in*
*My brother/sister*
*Grace of God*
*Friends*

Those are just a few things and of course I'm thankful for you guys here at sosuave.net. This is a community and I'm glad that MOST of the time we can all help each other out.


*cheers*
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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I am thankful that in my time of need my family helped me push thru and keep working hard. Now I have a handsome resume of honors and awards... it was like a rainbow of recognition after enduring the storm.

I am thankful that I learned enough about people to see through girls lies and understand how to keep my heart safe.

I am thankful for Chelsea [this cute italian girl] for showing me what a date SHOULD be like.

I am thankful that my friends put up with my ****... and I love them for it.

I am thankful I can keep learning about all that interests me. And that I can share what I learn.
 

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Thankful for having been presented with enough challenges allowing me to strive towards my perfection. Thankful for having reached a new level of understanding in such a way that I may now almost completly master myself.
 

Kidd

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Thankful to the freedoms we have, too many people take them for granted

Thankful for a loving family & friends

Thankful for everything I am able to do & everything I have achieved
 

idiot_boyfriend

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I'm thankful for a loving family and great friends, a nice house, and the freedoms of this nation.


Not to be political, but I am thankful to have such dedicated men and women protecting our freedom and way of life in nations abroad. I hope they have the best Thanksgiving Day possible.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Joe The Homophobe

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I am thankful for being alive.
I am thankful for having a wonderful family that cares about me.
I am thankful for having a place to live and foot to eat.
I am thankful for my family and I being healthy.
I am thankful to live in a place where I can work and have the opportunity to go to school and better myself.
 

JSH

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We don't really have Thanksgiving :p, but:


I am thankful for all those who care about me.
I am thankful for all those who got me to where i am: friends, teachers, this community, my brothers, most of all my parents.
I am thankful for Liberty.
I am thankful for the opportunities that I am provided with.
 

InsidiousNstinct

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Come on guys I know more of you are thankful...I hope!

Yeah...im bumping my own post...*brushes shoulders off*
 

Eternal

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I am thankful for:

- The friends I have

- My girlfriend

- Somewhat my parents

- Being able to handle situations

- The ton of food on Thanksgiving :D
 
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