"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thanksgiving lay

Poonani Maker

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I have 2 tgs to goto today. The first will be the usually old people tradition one. The one after involves many people I don't know, but there WILL be straggler girls there, about 70 people total.

Do you game on Thanksgiving?

Thanksgiving is usually about discussing memories from my experience. When hardly anybody knows anybody at Thanksgiving I say it's fair game. The problem is all that food. Who wants to have sex after eating all that food?

Do you see Thanksgiving as an opportunity to pick up?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backbreaker

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the **** ain't that serious to me.

thanksgiving i usually spend with family. you have about 360 days a year to fvck ass. there are about 5 days a year that I try to spend with my family as much as possible. Thanksgiving, christmas, my birthday, 4th of july and easter.

imho you look like a damn horn toad idiot going to thanksgiving dinners trying to get laid. there is a time for everything.

a guy that does that.. or a girl for that matters.. tells me there is alot of imbalance in that person.

if i go to thanksgiving dinner and there is a friend of a friend there and one thing leads to another...even then i'd go on a date, i'm not trying to get laid on thanksgiving. but going to thanksgiving dinner tiwth the purpose to get laid? prorirties are way out of wack imho
 

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backbreaker said:
the **** ain't that serious to me.

thanksgiving i usually spend with family. you have about 360 days a year to fvck ass. there are about 5 days a year that I try to spend with my family as much as possible. Thanksgiving, christmas, my birthday, 4th of july and easter.

imho you look like a damn horn toad idiot going to thanksgiving dinners trying to get laid. there is a time for everything.

a guy that does that.. or a girl for that matters.. tells me there is alot of imbalance in that person.

if i go to thanksgiving dinner and there is a friend of a friend there and one thing leads to another...even then i'd go on a date, i'm not trying to get laid on thanksgiving. but going to thanksgiving dinner tiwth the purpose to get laid? prorirties are way out of wack imho
Co-Sign.
 

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If you happen to meet someone and get a number great, but don't try and be a dog humping everyone's leg hoping someone lets you get some Thanksgiving poon. On the other side of things Don't let the holiday prevent you from meeting new women or new friends.

Bottom line you don't want to be the guy there creeping the girls out and who everyone talks about afterwards and wishes had never shown up.
 
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