"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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giyabonga

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I just want to thank all the guys on this site for all the great advice. The DJ Bible is awesome!!

I have been coming to this site for about 3 months and I've been trying to absorb the DJ Bible by reading it over and over again. I have already seen a big improvement with regards to my confidence.

In the last two months I have managed to score 2 girls (they weren't too hot but good practice though hehe)

My main weakness is still approaching strangers but I'm working on it slowly.
Both the girls I scored were introduced to me by friends, I'm still proud of myself though because I did the following things:

I showed them I was having a great time, I never gave them too much attention, I used kino (I never beleived it would work so well) by asking to see bracelets on her arm and asking her about them hehe and spending just a little longer touching her. The one girl keeps phoning me and trying to get me to come over....... how sweet it is!!!

Before finding this site I was THE BIGGEST AFC ever, actually proud when someone said "You're such a nice guy". Now when someone says that I just tell them that they obviously don't know me too well.

Thanks again!!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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THIAGO BRAZIL

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KEEP WALKING
Know that you ARE a DJ
 

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Well done. I've been experiencing the same sort of thing, whoever runs this site deserves a big thumbs up.
 
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